Well, it’s morning here in Carson, Ca.
Anyway, I though I’d post a little something to start the day.
Have a nice day, everyone!
Well, it’s morning here in Carson, Ca.
Anyway, I though I’d post a little something to start the day.
Have a nice day, everyone!
Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER, a blog series that explores strategy in interactions, focusing on effective communication, conflict resolution, and building connections. It covers topics like negotiation techniques, manipulation tactics, leadership skills, personal branding, and online reputation management to equip you with tools for navigating power dynamics and achieving success in social and professional settings.
In this installment, we will explore the 20th law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can but a copy by clicking HERE.
LAW 20 PART 1: DO NOT COMMIT TO ANYONE
DO NOT COMMIT TO ANYONE, as relationships can often lead to complications that may hinder personal growth and freedom. It is essential to focus on your own goals and aspirations, allowing yourself the space to explore new opportunities without being tied down. This journey of self-discovery not only empowers you but also cultivates resilience, enabling you to navigate life’s challenges with confidence.
By prioritizing your independence, you can develop a stronger sense of self and make decisions that truly align with your values and desires, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life experience. Embracing your individuality can open doors to vast experiences, enriching your life in ways that relationships may sometimes overshadow, allowing you to fully realize your potential while enjoying the journey of life on your own terms. This journey of self-discovery not only fosters personal growth but also enhances your ability to interact meaningfully with others.
When you understand and embrace who you are, you cultivate a confident self-image that enables you to pursue your passions wholeheartedly. Furthermore, being independent means that you can explore varied interests and activities without feeling beholden to the preferences of others, leading to unique opportunities and memorable adventures that shape your character and resilience. Through independence, you learn to trust your intuition and judgment, creating a solid foundation for future endeavors, while also inspiring those around you to seek their own paths toward self-fulfillment.
The 20th Law of Power: Do Not Commit to Anyone, as viewed through the philosophical and physical lens of an Angoleiro of Capoeira Angola.
This exploration delves into the nuanced application of the Machiavellian principle, “Do Not Commit to Anyone,” interpreting it not as a call for outright disloyalty or isolation, but as a strategic path toward maintaining autonomy, flexibility, and a balanced perspective, a vital necessity for practitioners of Capoeira Angola.The Angoleiro’s Stance: Malícia, Autonomy, and the Roda
For the Angoleiro, a student and master of Capoeira Angola, life is a constant jogo (game/dance) where power dynamics are subtle yet profound. The 20th Law is translated into the core Capoeira concepts of malícia (cunning, street smarts) and corpo fechado (literally “closed body,” meaning spiritual and mental protection).
In conclusion, for the Angoleiro, the 20th Law is a principle of survival and supremacy: maintain the freedom to move, the clarity to observe, and the distance to negotiate, ensuring that one’s power remains rooted in self-possession, not in the fluctuating fortunes of others.
Welcome to the Self-Defense series, designed to empower you through physical, mental, spiritual, and legal aspects that are crucial in today’s world. This comprehensive program provides essential skills for protection, promoting not just readiness, resilience, and confidence but also a deep understanding of personal safety. We cover a wide range of self-defense strategies that include practical techniques and situational awareness, coupled with psychological components that help build a strong mindset to face potential threats. Additionally, we explore spiritual practices that enhance your inner strength and focus, fostering a sense of peace and balance. The legal frameworks discussed are vital for encouraging informed actions that ensure your rights are upheld, while also contributing to a sense of responsibility within the community. Ultimately, this series is not just about defense; it’s a journey towards personal growth and empowerment that prepares you for challenges both on and off the mat.
In today’s installment…
How far would you defend yourself or others in dangerous situations? In this video are some compelling examples of actual situations that showcase the courage and quick thinking of individuals when faced with threats.
For instance, you’ll see a woman who bravely fights off a robber in a store, demonstrating not only her strength but also her determination to protect herself and her belongings. Her prompt response serves as a reminder of the importance of being aware of one’s surroundings and having the confidence to act when necessary. Additionally, there is a situation where a woman comes to the aid of an autistic customer being harassed, illustrating the importance of standing up for those who may not be able to defend themselves. This particular incident sheds light on the social responsibility we hold towards the vulnerable individuals in our communities, reminding us that kindness and bravery can coexist in even the most challenging circumstances.
Of course, law enforcement does not advise that someone goes up against an armed attacker, for that is extremely dangerous. However, these real-life scenarios provoke thought about the lengths we are willing to go to ensure safety for ourselves and others, sparking important conversations about personal responsibility and altruism in today’s society. Such discussions encourage us to reflect on our values and the actions we might take to foster a safer environment, not just for ourselves but for those around us who may need our support. Moreover, contemplating our responses to dangerous situations can lead to a deeper understanding of the complexities surrounding personal safety, community vigilance, and the moral obligations we have towards our fellow citizens.
It raises questions such as: What measures are we prepared to take when confronted with violence? What role do bystanders play in crisis situations, and how can we empower individuals to act wisely and safely? Engaging in these reflections can galvanize us into proactive community involvement, driving efforts to educate ourselves about self-defense, emergency preparedness, and intervention strategies, ultimately working together to build a society where safety and compassion are paramount.
This series examines the modern malandro in contemporary society, showcasing their resourcefulness, charm, and adaptability as they navigate urban life while evading deception and addressing issues like economic disparities and social justice. While linked to Capoeira, the individuals featured are diverse and possess unique stories. The series highlights their resilience and clever tactics, celebrating their ingenuity and spirit, while inviting readers to engage with their lives to gain insight into navigating the complexities of contemporary urban environments.
In today’s installment…
Okay, I realize this is a scene from the movie Zombie land, and not a real person… But this is how a MALANDRO operates. The gas station attendant, with a sly smile, thought he would get away with pocketing $3000 for the seemingly mundane transaction, completely underestimating the situational awareness of those around him. So the $400 he gave to the little girl was nothing more than a minimal sacrifice, a mere distraction to keep her quiet and compliant. It showcased the lengths to which he would go to secure his gain, reflecting a calculated mindset often seen in the most cunning of swindlers. The best cons not only deceive but also make the victim want to participate, creating a web of manipulation that entices their targets to willingly engage in the deception. This creates a false sense of partnership, leaving the victim oblivious to the true motives at play, often resulting in their own misfortune.
Like I said, this series was created to show scams like these, so hopefully, you don’t fall for them. By shedding light on the tactics and strategies employed by scammers, we aim to empower viewers with the knowledge they need to recognize and avoid becoming victims. Through real-life examples and expert insights, we hope to raise awareness and promote vigilance in our audience, ensuring they can navigate the complexities of today’s digital landscape with confidence. Remember, staying informed is your best defense against these deceitful schemes.
Well, it actually became a holiday in 1990, but today’s the first time I ever heard about it.
Harriet Tubman Day is celebrated on March 10 every year, serving as a powerful reminder of her incredible legacy. If you’ve never heard of Harriet Tubman, she was a former slave who fought tirelessly to free other slaves by assisting them in fleeing their captors through remarkable courage and ingenuity.
Tubman is celebrated all around the United States, especially in Maryland and New York, two states that held great significance in her life and activism. She is most commonly known for the Underground Railroad, which refers to the network of safe houses and routes she used to help slaves escape to freedom, risking her own life in the process. Harriet Tubman Day is a day to remember the heroic actions of this great woman and honor her work by fighting racism wherever you see it, promoting equality and justice, and continuing her legacy of resilience and hope for future generations. Through education and awareness, we can ensure that the sacrifices she made are never forgotten, inspiring others to stand up against oppression and injustice.
I came across this great interview on YouTube a couple of days ago, and I thought I would show it to you. I’ve followed brother Rob and posted some of his videos here on this blog for a while now; his insights are truly inspiring and his story is a testament to perseverance.
In this interview, he dives deeper into his journey, discussing both the challenges he faced and the strategies he employed to overcome them. He shares valuable lessons that can resonate with anyone looking to improve their life and pursue their passions. I believe you’ll find it as enlightening as I did, and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on it!
Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER, a captivating blog series focused on strategy in our interactions, carefully covering various aspects such as effective communication, conflict resolution, and the art of building meaningful connections. This series aims to delve deeply into critical topics such as negotiation techniques, subtle manipulation tactics, essential leadership skills, personal branding strategies, and comprehensive online reputation management. By exploring these multifaceted themes, we intend to equip you with a diverse set of tools and insights that will enable you to adeptly navigate complex power dynamics and emerge victorious in various social and professional settings. Whether you’re looking to enhance your interpersonal skills, strengthen your influence, or simply understand the underlying mechanics of power, this series is designed to provide invaluable guidance and transformative perspectives that can lead to your ultimate success.
In this installment, we will explore the 19th law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can but a copy by clicking HERE.
Law 19: Know who you’re dealing with – do not offend the wrong person
Understanding the dynamics of human behavior is crucial, as reactions can vary drastically from one individual to another. Never assume everyone will react the same way; what might provoke anger in one could result in indifference in another. Each person’s unique life experiences, emotional resilience, and personal values shape their responses to different situations. Therefore, it is essential to choose your victims carefully, taking into account their personality traits, background, and potential triggers. By examining the nuances of each individual’s character and history, you can better predict how they might respond to various stimuli and interaction methods. This deeper understanding not only aids in avoiding conflict but also fosters more empathetic and effective communication, ultimately leading to healthier interactions. A careful assessment can mitigate unnecessary confrontations and facilitate more positive outcomes in any engagement.
The ability to navigate these complexities can greatly influence your interactions and the outcomes of your decisions, ensuring that you maintain control and avoid unnecessary conflict. By developing a keen understanding of the intricacies involved, you can enhance your communication skills, which ultimately leads to more constructive conversations and a more harmonious environment. This awareness enables you to anticipate potential challenges and address them proactively, fostering an atmosphere of cooperation rather than confrontation. In turn, this approach not only strengthens your relationships but also empowers you to make better-informed choices, paving the way for successful resolutions that benefit all parties involved.
The 19th Law of Power, Through the Eyes of an Angoleiro: Never Put a Price Tag on Your Dignity
The 19th Law of Power, often interpreted as “Know who you are dealing with—do not offend the wrong person,” takes on a profound, almost spiritual, dimension when viewed through the lens of an angoleiro—a practitioner of Capoeira Angola, the art’s most traditional and philosophical form. For the angoleiro, this law transcends mere social strategy; it becomes a commandment concerning personal honor, respect (respeito), and the sanctity of the roda (the circle where capoeira is played).
The Roda as a Microcosm of Power
In the roda of Capoeira Angola, power is not measured by physical strength or winning a fight, but by presence, control, and the ability to dictate the pace of the jogo (the game). The angoleiro is perpetually testing the boundaries, not just of their opponent, but of the entire environment. When navigating the law, the angoleiro understands that offending the “wrong person” means disrespecting the fundamental principles of the art:
Conclusion: The Price of Disrespect
For the angoleiro, the 19th Law is not about self-preservation in a courtly environment; it is about moral integrity in an ancient tradition. The greatest power they possess is their dignidade (dignity) and the respect they command. They do not put a price tag on their honor. To offend the wrong person is to invite a lesson in humility—a lesson that often comes in the form of a perfectly executed, elegant, and often humiliating counter-movement. The law, therefore, serves as a constant reminder: Respect the tradition, respect the hierarchy, and respect the silent power of the knowledge held by those who appear to be the most unassuming.
Shout out to The Professor for his engaging video that sparks critical thinking and discussions among viewers. Explore his YouTube channel HERE for thought-provoking analyses and connect with a community passionate about knowledge and understanding. Don’t miss the chance to enrich your worldview through enlightening conversations.
Shills and others argue we deserve disrespect for advocating for ourselves, but it’s actually our failure to do so that has led to this disrespect. When we choose to remain silent or passive in the face of injustice, we inadvertently reinforce the very narratives that belittle our worth.
By not standing up and voicing our concerns, we allow misconceptions and stereotypes to flourish, giving validity to those who dismiss our experiences. It is our responsibility to challenge these perceptions actively and demand the respect we deserve, for only through our advocacy can we begin to change the conversation and empower ourselves and others who share in this struggle. This journey requires courage and persistence, as we must confront not just the surface-level prejudices but also the deep-rooted beliefs that perpetuate inequality.
Every voice matters, and it is crucial that we come together as a united front, sharing our stories and experiences to highlight the realities of our situations. When we exchange our narratives, we not only validate each other but also educate those who may not understand the implications of their ignorance. In doing so, we pave the way for future generations to inherit a more inclusive and understanding society, one where diversity is cherished rather than marginalized. By fostering open dialogues, we create spaces for learning and growth, allowing people from all walks of life to engage with our realities, thus dismantling the walls that separate us.
The entire month of March is designated as Women’s History Month in the United States, and many other countries also observe it to celebrate women’s achievements and contributions throughout history. This month serves as a vital reminder of the strides made by women in various fields, including politics, science, arts, and social movements. Through the recognition of their accomplishments, we honor not only the individuals who paved the way for future generations but also the ongoing struggles many women face today. To celebrate, I’m gonna dedicate at least one blog to honor women who shaped our history, exploring their remarkable stories and the lasting impact they have had on society as a whole, while also encouraging discussion on the importance of gender equality and empowerment for women everywhere.
And I’m gonna start with not just 1 woman, but a whole army, the Agojie, the famed “Amazons” of the DAHOMEY KINGDOM of West Africa, as depicted here in the recent movie, “The Woman King”. These extraordinary women were not just fighters; they were warriors who defended their kingdom with unmatched bravery and skill, showcasing the strength and resilience of African heritage.
Now, as much as I liked this movie for bringing their story to the forefront, to me, it is also a reminder for my people to NEVER let Hollywood choose our heroes for us.
It’s essential that we take the narrative into our own hands, ensuring that the legacy of these remarkable women is told accurately and authentically, and that we celebrate our own cultural icons who have shaped history in profound ways. In doing so, we not only honor their contributions but also inspire future generations to recognize the power and potential within themselves. And for that end, I present THIS documentary, hosted by Lupita Nyongo, a pivotal figure in modern storytelling.
Journey across Benin, West Africa with Lupita, as she uncovers the story of the ‘Agoji’ (a forgotten female army) – or, as Europeans labeled them, the ‘Amazons.’ Through breathtaking landscapes and rich cultural narratives, this documentary reveals the strength and valor of these incredible women, shedding light on their pivotal role in history, which has often been overlooked and underappreciated.
As Lupita delves deeper into their stories, viewers will not only gain insight into the Agoji’s fierce battles and unwavering dedication but also into the broader implications of their legacy within the context of African history and women’s empowerment today. By exploring the personal narratives of these extraordinary women, the audience can appreciate the resilience they exhibited in the face of adversity, highlighting their roles not just as warriors, but as symbols of strength and courage.
This exploration serves as a reminder of the importance of acknowledging and celebrating the contributions of women throughout history, particularly in cultures where their voices were often marginalized. Through Lupita’s lens, the rich tapestry of the Agoji’s influence can inspire contemporary discussions around gender equality, motivating future generations to honor their heritage while advocating for women’s rights in today’s society, thus fostering a deeper understanding of how the past intricately shapes our present and future.
The “Malandros in Action” series explores the modern malandro in contemporary society, highlighting their resourcefulness and charm as they navigate urban life while evading deception, often using their wits to turn challenging situations into advantageous opportunities. Although linked to Capoeira, most of the showcased individuals are not capoeiristas, thereby broadening the understanding of the archetype and illustrating that malandros come from diverse backgrounds, each with a unique story and perspective.
The series examines their resilience, adaptability, and clever tactics to overcome obstacles, addressing pressing issues like economic disparities and social justice while fostering community bonds and a sense of solidarity among marginalized groups. Through storytelling and analysis, it celebrates their ingenuity, creativity, and unyielding spirit in the face of adversity, prompting reflection on their role within the urban landscape. Moreover, it serves as an invitation for readers to engage deeply with the complexities of these characters’ lives, learning their strategies with the hope that you, the reader, do not fall victim to them and instead gain insight into navigating the intricate social fabrics of contemporary cities.
In today’s installment…
This is the story of Kevin Trudeau and his many late TV infomercial scams, which captivated audiences late at night with promises of miraculous solutions to everyday problems. From health supplements that claimed to cure severe ailments to get-rich-quick schemes that lured in countless desperate individuals, Trudeau’s persuasive presentation style and charismatic personality often obscured the dubious nature of his offers.
Over the years, his advertisements became a hallmark of late-night television, leading many viewers to question the ethics behind such deceptive marketing practices. The flashy graphics and exaggerated claims drew in countless viewers, enticing them with promises of impossible results and life-changing transformations. However, as the truth behind the products began to surface, a growing discontent emerged among consumers, ultimately resulting in legal battles and financial repercussions that defined his controversial career. These challenges not only tarnished his reputation but also prompted a nationwide debate on the responsibilities of advertisers and the impact of misleading information on vulnerable audiences, further complicating the already tumultuous landscape of advertising during that era.