The rapid evolution of modern society is not without its hidden costs, chief among them being the insidious proliferation of toxic behavior, often manifesting in ways that escape immediate public notice. This in-depth video exploration is dedicated to uncovering and illuminating the deeply rooted cultural, psychological, and emotional tectonic shifts that are silently yet powerfully driving the creation of more toxic individuals than at any other point in recent history.
The increasing pace of digital connectivity, coupled with shifting social norms, has inadvertently cultivated environments where self-absorption, chronic comparison, and a lack of authentic empathy thrive. Psychologically, a culture of instant gratification and performance pressure has led to heightened levels of narcissism and emotional fragility, where a person’s value is often tied to external validation—a fertile ground for toxic defense mechanisms. Emotionally, the breakdown of strong community bonds and the rise of isolation have diminished natural opportunities for developing conflict resolution skills and genuine compassion.
By meticulously breaking down the “why” behind this concerning trend, viewers will gain invaluable intellectual and emotional armor. The core purpose of this elaboration is to empower you to:
Protect Your Energy: Learn to identify the subtle energy-draining tactics employed by toxic individuals—be they manipulative colleagues, emotionally volatile family members, or demanding partners—and establish robust, non-negotiable personal boundaries to preserve your vital resources.
Strengthen Your Awareness: Develop a sophisticated radar for recognizing the early warning signs of toxicity in relationships and interactions, moving beyond surface-level charm to spot underlying patterns of control, gaslighting, or victimhood.
Reclaiming Your Peace: Strategies to Break Free from Toxic Relationships
Stop Letting the Wrong People Drain Your Life. The energy you invest in high-toxicity individuals is a non-renewable resource that, when squandered, costs you your well-being, focus, and potential for growth. This critical shift begins with an unflinching recognition of the drain—identifying the people, dynamics, and repetitive patterns that leave you feeling depleted, anxious, or diminished.
Acquire actionable, evidence-based strategies to disengage from destructive cycles. Breaking free from toxic entanglement requires more than just good intentions; it demands a structured, step-by-step approach rooted in psychological awareness.
Establish Firm Boundaries (The Cornerstone of Self-Respect): This is the immediate and most potent line of defense. Learn to articulate your needs clearly, calmly, and without apology. This includes setting limits on communication frequency, conversation topics, and the level of personal access you permit. For individuals who consistently violate these boundaries, the principle of “low-contact” or “no-contact” becomes paramount.
Minimize Contact with High-Toxicity Individuals: This is the practical execution of your boundaries. High-toxicity people often thrive on drama, conflict, or constant neediness. Your goal is to systematically reduce their opportunities to engage with you. This might involve changing communication channels, avoiding specific social settings, or simply keeping interactions brief and strictly focused on neutral subjects. Recognize that some relationships require a complete, deliberate “cut-off” (no-contact) to preserve your mental health.
Practice Emotional Detachment: Learn to manage your emotional response to their predictable behaviors. Toxic individuals often seek to elicit strong reactions—anger, guilt, or fear—to maintain control. By practicing detachment, you refuse to take the bait. See their behavior not as a personal attack, but as a reflection of their own internal struggles, making it easier to remain objective and emotionally uninvolved.
Consciously curate a supportive, positive circle that uplifts and empowers your journey. The space vacated by toxic relationships must be intentionally filled with sources of authentic strength and validation. This is the proactive phase of reclaiming your agency.
Identify and Nurture Authentic Connections: Seek out people who demonstrate empathy, celebrate your successes, offer constructive support during challenges, and respect your boundaries without question. These are individuals who add energy to your life, not subtract it.
Prioritize Reciprocity: Your supportive circle should be characterized by a two-way street of mutual respect and give-and-take. Avoid relationships where you are consistently the sole provider of emotional support, resources, or effort.
Engage in Positive Environments: Actively seek out groups, clubs, or professional settings aligned with your values and goals. Surrounding yourself with people who are also focused on growth and self-improvement accelerates your own progress.
This shift in perspective and action is not just about defense, but about proactively reclaiming your peace, well-being, and personal agency. Moving beyond toxicity is an act of self-love and self-preservation. By systematically applying these strategies, you are consciously optimizing your life for harmony, fulfillment, and emotional resilience. You transition from being a passive recipient of emotional drain to becoming the active architect of a life governed by your own priorities and fueled by positive, healthy relationships..
Dealing with difficult or draining personalities is an unfortunately common aspect of modern life. If you’re interested in exploring practical and philosophical methods for navigating these challenging relationships, particularly by adopting the unique perspective and wisdom of an Angoleiro—a practitioner of the Angolan style of Capoeira—then a more detailed resource awaits you.
An Angoleiro‘s training is not just physical; it is deeply rooted in patience, observation, adaptability (malícia), and resilience, all of which are highly effective tools when confronting interpersonal toxicity. By applying principles learned from this ancient art—such as maintaining composure under pressure, using the opponent’s energy against them, and understanding the rhythm of a confrontation—you can develop a powerful, non-violent emotional and psychological defense mechanism. To dive into these specific strategies, which translate the fluid, defensive movements and mental discipline of Capoeira Angola into real-world advice for emotional self-preservation and boundary-setting with challenging people, please click HERE.
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This week…
This episode: Beyond the Veil of Visibility: Examining the Depth of Black Imagery in Media
It is an undeniable truth that Black actors today enjoy a greater quantitative presence in films and television shows than in decades past. However, this sheer increase in visibility should not be mistaken for meaningful or authentic representation. The true measure of progress lies not in the volume of appearances, but in the quality and complexity of the roles being offered.
When the characters written for Black talent are disproportionately confined to narrow, often harmful archetypes—such as criminals, servants, comedic relief, sidekicks, the emotionally detached “magical negro,” or characters whose narratives are solely defined by trauma—then representation has not genuinely progressed. It has merely diversified in the most superficial of ways, creating a false sense of inclusion.
These limiting roles frequently serve to reinforce damaging, long-standing cultural narratives, regardless of the exceptional skill and artistry of the actors embodying them. This perpetuation of tropes, even in contemporary media, normalizes a restricted and distorted view of Black humanity.
The problem extends beyond the screen and into the realm of printed media, including books, magazines, and comic books. While some Black tropes may have had historical or contextual roots, their continuous and uncritical deployment becomes fundamentally harmful. They operate by flattening the experiences of millions of people into one or two simplistic, overused personality types. This practice effectively erases the vast cultural, regional, class, and personal diversity that exists within the global Black community.
Ultimately, mere visibility is not enough. Representation that lacks authenticity, depth, and complexity is, in effect, a form of misrepresentation. It fails to honor the rich tapestry of Black life and instead promotes an easily digestible, often prejudiced caricature.
In this essential episode of Warrior Class, the Instructors will lead a rigorous and timely exploration and discussion of Black imagery, examining its evolution, impact, and authenticity across various media, including books, television, and film.
I wanted to follow up on a PREVIOUS POST with some exciting news regarding one of our own. A close friend and fellow Capoeirista is preparing for an incredible journey: she will soon be traveling with a friend to Palestine to dedicate her time and energy to helping uplift lives in the region.
Out of respect for her privacy and since I’m not entirely sure if she is comfortable with me using her real name on this public blog, I’ve decided to give her a nickname for the purpose of this story. I’m going to call her RUBY.
I chose this name for a very specific reason: she truly IS a Ruby. She is a rare gem amongst us—a person whose light shines with an uncommon brilliance and dedication. She is choosing to use a significant part of her life journey to embark on this challenging and noble mission. Her motivation is simple yet profound: to help make the world a better, more equitable, and more compassionate place.
This selflessness places her among the countless humanitarians, activists, and aid workers who have come before her, dedicating themselves to service in difficult environments. We send her off with our deepest respect and admiration, knowing that she is contributing to a legacy of hope and assistance. And, god willing, her example will inspire many more after her to follow in the footsteps of service and global citizenship. We will be following her journey closely and sharing updates as she is able to provide them. Please keep Ruby in your thoughts as she prepares for this meaningful work.
Dear Ruby,
I’m writing to you today, as you embark on this journey to Israel and Palestine, with a heart full of mixed emotions that I know are shared by everyone who cares about you. I can truly speak for all of us when I say that a deep and pervasive sense of worry accompanies your departure, primarily because of the well-documented volatility and ongoing conflict in that region. We are acutely aware of the historical and current tension that makes that part of the world an exceptionally dangerous area.
Indeed, it’s a place steeped in so much history and prophecy, even near the Valley of Megiddo, which features so prominently in ancient texts as the predicted site of Armageddon. The awareness of the continuous cycle of conflict there weighs heavily on all of our minds. This isn’t just a concern for an abstract conflict; it’s a deep fear for your personal safety, knowing that even areas considered “safe” can quickly become unpredictable in a region with such deeply rooted geopolitical instability. We follow the news closely, and every report serves as a fresh reminder of the complexity and risk you are willingly stepping into.
However, mixed with this apprehension is an enormous sense of pride and admiration for your courage. Your decision to go, despite the risks, speaks volumes about your commitment to understanding the world and your dedication to the principles you hold dear—principles, I know, that drive you to seek out truth and connection in even the most challenging environments.
We know you are not going lightly or without preparation. The Angoleira in you—the warrior, the seeker, the one who moves with grace and intention through the world—gives us some comfort. Yet, please, let that same spirit guide you to be vigilant, to be cautious, and to prioritize your well-being above all else. Remember that your personal safety is paramount. Keep us updated, check in often, and know that our thoughts are constantly with you as you navigate this powerful, volatile, and profoundly significant part of the world. We wish you an experience that is as safe as it is meaningful.
However, amidst this concern, there is also an immense and undeniable pride that swells within me—a feeling that completely eclipses any passing apprehension. I am genuinely, profoundly happy and immensely supportive to see you embark on this next chapter of your journey, not just because it represents a major life step, but because I know, intimately and without a shadow of a doubt, the kind of person you are.
I have witnessed, firsthand, the strength of the spirit you carry—a resilience that has overcome every obstacle placed in your path and a fierce determination that never allows you to settle for less than your best. It is this unwavering conviction that guides your steps, ensuring that you approach every challenge with integrity, empathy, and a clear sense of purpose.
Because of all this, I have absolute, unshakable faith that you possess everything needed to not only navigate the challenging and complex environment you are heading into but also to thrive within it. More than just surviving, I believe you will contribute profoundly, making a significant, positive, and lasting impact on everyone you meet and everything you touch. You have a unique ability to see the good, foster collaboration, and tackle essential work with a dedication that is truly inspiring, and I know you will achieve so many essential good things while you are there. This journey is a testament to your character, and I am already looking forward to hearing about the incredible successes you will undoubtedly achieve..
This deep confidence comes from knowing the authentic you, Ruby—from knowing you as a Capoeirista, an Angoleira, and a warrior. These are not merely casual titles to be worn lightly; they are a deep and undeniable reflection of your inherent discipline, your fierce resilience, your deep-seated commitment to justice, and your unyielding dedication to community. The philosophy, the strength, and the unique wisdom you have cultivated through years of intense practice and deep study within Capoeira Angola are not external skills; they are now intrinsic, foundational parts of your character.
They have forged an inner compass that points true north, regardless of the surrounding chaos. Wherever you may go—to any corner of the world, and especially to a place where true strength of character, moral clarity, and personal fortitude are paramount—you take that powerful, uplifting, and protective energy with you. It is a presence that will serve as both your shield and your light, ensuring that you remain grounded, focused, and effective in your mission. Your training has prepared you not just for the roda, but for the world. Go forth and shine your light brightly.
Your presence there is a beacon, fueled by a deeply personal and profound desire to make a tangible difference in the lives of others. This commitment, this willingness to step into a challenging environment, will undoubtedly make you a continuous source of light, hope, and steady reassurance for those you encounter. You are embarking on a truly meaningful journey.
Embrace this entire experience—the challenges, the triumphs, and the quiet moments of connection. Let it shape you and enrich your understanding of the world. Commit yourself fully, heart and soul, to the core mission of uplifting lives, one interaction at a time. Work diligently to bring a measurable degree of peace and positivity wherever your path leads you, whether through direct action, compassionate listening, or simply by maintaining a calm and encouraging demeanor. Never underestimate the impact of sharing the unique perspective, profound empathy, and defining compassion that you carry within you. These qualities are your greatest assets and will leave an indelible mark on the community you serve.
May the both of you have a truly wonderful and deeply impactful time during your journey to Palestine. Please know that we are all immensely proud of the work you are undertaking and the commitment you are showing. Go forth and do the good work that I know you are destined to do, bringing your unique compassion and powerful energy to those you meet and the causes you serve.
As you dedicate your whole heart and considerable energy to this important and vital endeavor, please carry with you the knowledge of our support, our admiration, and our most heartfelt wish for your eventual, safe return. We know you will encounter profound challenges and moments of deep inspiration. Embrace these experiences; let them shape and guide you. Come back to us stronger in spirit, enriched by the invaluable understanding and empathy you will have gained, and better for the profound experiences you will have had in contributing to such meaningful work.
And, most importantly of all, we pray that you return safe and sound. Your well-being is our greatest concern, overshadowing all other worries. Every day that you are away, we send our hopes and positive energy across the miles, wishing you protection and peace. Take the utmost care of yourself, be mindful and acutely aware of your surroundings at all times, and know that you are a constant, cherished presence in our thoughts and prayers. This absence, while a necessary part of your journey, feels like a long, quiet pause in our lives.
We will be meticulously counting the days, marking the weeks off the calendar with a dedicated attention, and anticipating the glorious moment until we can finally welcome you home. That day will be a true celebration—we long to hear every detail of your stories, share in your experiences, and celebrate all that you have accomplished during this time. Your return will complete our circle. Until then, travel well, our dear sister Angoleira, and know that a warm, loving home awaits you.
Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER, a blog series that delves into human interactions through communication, conflict resolution, and negotiation. It offers strategies for leadership, personal branding, and reputation management, equipping readers with tools for personal and professional growth while focusing on social influence and emotional intelligence.
In this installment, we will explore the 43rd law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can buy a copy by clicking HERE.
LAW 43 WORK ON THE HEARTS & MINDS OF OTHERS
The true seat of power lies not merely in physical force or overt authority, but in the subtle art of influencing the internal landscape—the hearts and minds—of those around you. This law dictates that the most enduring form of control is that which is willingly, even enthusiastically, surrendered by the subject. Instead of issuing commands or relying solely on the threat of punishment, the master of this law works to cultivate goodwill, dependency, and a deep-seated belief in their superiority and vision.
The Strategy of Infiltration:
To “work on the hearts and minds” is to bypass the rational defenses and appeal directly to the emotional and psychological needs of people. This involves several key maneuvers:
Emotional Connection and Sympathy: The astute operator first seeks to establish a connection, often by feigning commonality, expressing empathy, or appearing vulnerable. People are far more willing to follow a leader they like or pity than one they merely fear. By addressing their anxieties or articulating their unspoken desires, you win their emotional allegiance, making them receptive to your influence.
Cultivating Dependency and Gratitude: Ensure that your generosity or aid is timely and appears indispensable. By making others feel indebted to you—by providing them with things they cannot easily obtain elsewhere, whether resources, protection, or vital information—you weave a powerful psychological chain of obligation. This gratitude becomes a lever you can use far more effectively than any direct command.
The Art of Ideological Capture: True power comes from capturing the imagination. Craft a compelling narrative, an ideology, or a vision that transcends the mundane. Present your aims not as personal ambitions, but as a noble cause that aligns with their highest ideals. When people believe they are fighting for a greater principle, their zeal and commitment multiply, and they will work tirelessly on your behalf, effectively becoming self-governing agents of your will.
Psychological Disarmament: By controlling the flow of information, shaping the environment, and employing small, strategic victories, you gradually wear down the independent judgment of others. When people are constantly receiving signals that confirm your strength and their reliance on you, their internal resistance falters. They stop questioning your motives and begin to internalize your worldview.
This Law serves as a profound caution against the indiscriminate and heavy-handed application of power. A purely coercive approach, relying on brute force or overt domination, is inherently counterproductive. While force may achieve momentary compliance, its lasting legacy is one of deep-seated resentment and an unquenchable desire for vengeance, inevitably sowing the seeds of future insubordination and revolt.
The true master of power understands that the battle for control is best fought not in the physical arena, but in the psychological one. The ultimate objective is not merely to subdue the body, but to conquer the mind. A person whose mental landscape you have skillfully influenced and ultimately won over transforms from a potential threat into an enthusiastic, willing, and loyal servant. Such an individual will become a steadfast defender of your authority, often more fiercely than you would defend yourself, internalizing your will to the point of policing their own thoughts and actions.
The goal is to cultivate an environment where people genuinely desire to follow your lead, to embrace your vision as their own. When this psychological mastery is achieved, the need for overt, external coercion—the setting of rules, the threat of punishment, the display of raw force—becomes obsolete. This is the pinnacle of authority: a power that is absolute in its reach yet practically invisible in its operation, making your command appear to be a natural, self-willed act on the part of the subordinate. This subtle, internalized authority is the most enduring and impregnable form of control.
How to Use the 43rd Law of Power Ethically: “Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others”
The 43rd Law of Power, as articulated in Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power, states: “Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others.” At its core, this law is about strategic persuasion, influence, and winning over people’s goodwill, not just through logic or coercion, but by appealing to their emotions, desires, and self-interest. Used unethically, it can be a tool for manipulation and deceit. However, when applied with integrity and a focus on mutual benefit, it becomes a powerful instrument for positive leadership, collaboration, and lasting influence.I. Understanding the Ethical Imperative
The ethical use of this law hinges on a shift in motivation:
Unethical Use: The goal is purely self-serving, aimed at controlling others for personal gain without regard for their well-being. It relies on exploiting vulnerabilities, faking empathy, and breaking trust.
Ethical Use: The goal is to build genuine, sustainable influence that leads to shared success, stronger relationships, and positive organizational or communal outcomes. It relies on authentic connection, transparency, and aligning one’s goals with the genuine needs of others.
II. Ethical Application Strategies
To ethically “work on the hearts and minds of others,” focus on the following principles:1. Prioritize Authentic Empathy and Connection
Instead of feigning interest to find a weakness, genuinely seek to understand the other person’s perspective, motivations, and needs.
Identify Shared Values: Find the common ground between your objective and the other person’s goals. Influence is easiest when you are helping them move toward something they already want.
Active Listening: Don’t just wait for your turn to speak. Listen to understand their fears, hopes, and concerns. Acknowledging these concerns builds trust and shows respect.
Show Genuine Appreciation: Acknowledge their contributions and value them openly. People are more willing to follow a leader who makes them feel seen and essential.
2. Frame Influence Around Mutual Benefit (Win-Win)
Ethical influence is not about taking; it’s about proposing a value exchange that benefits everyone involved.
Communicate the “Why”: Clearly articulate how your vision or proposal serves their interests. Don’t just tell them what to do; explain why it is beneficial for them, the team, or the organization.
Offer Real Value: Ensure that your request or initiative provides a tangible benefit, whether it’s career growth, recognition, improved conditions, or a sense of purpose.
Transparency in Intent: Be open about your ultimate goal. Hiding your true intentions—the essence of manipulation—destroys the trust that ethical influence is built upon.
3. Build Influence Through Deeds, Not Just Words
Long-term ethical influence is sustained by a consistent track record of integrity and competence.
Demonstrate Reliability: Consistently follow through on your commitments. Reliability is the bedrock of credibility, which is essential for winning hearts and minds.
Lead by Example: People are influenced by actions more than rhetoric. Uphold the standards and values you expect from others.
Invest in Their Growth: Help others develop their skills and advance their careers. A leader who invests in the success of their team earns deep loyalty and a powerful sphere of influence.
4. Respect Individual Autonomy
The key ethical distinction is ensuring that the other person feels they are making a free choice, not being coerced or tricked.
Provide Options: Where possible, offer choices rather than mandates. This maintains a sense of control and collaboration.
Welcome Dissent: Create an environment where people feel safe to voice disagreement. True alignment comes from debating and resolving differences, not suppressing them.
Avoid Exploiting Weaknesses: While the unethical application seeks vulnerabilities, the ethical approach recognizes and respects boundaries. Never use personal information to threaten or coerce.
III. Practical Ethical Scenarios
Unethical Application (Manipulation)
Ethical Application (Influence)
Strategy: Flattering a subordinate excessively to get them to do unpleasant work without proper credit.
Strategy: Highlighting a subordinate’s unique skills and giving them a challenging assignment with high visibility and appropriate recognition.
Strategy: Creating a false sense of crisis or urgency to bypass proper due diligence and force a quick decision.
Strategy: Clearly and honestly presenting the risks and opportunities associated with a decision, inviting constructive input from all stakeholders.
Strategy: Promising rewards you know you cannot deliver just to secure temporary compliance.
Strategy: Setting realistic expectations and consistently celebrating small wins and delivering promised incentives.
By committing to genuine connection, mutual benefit, transparency, and respect for autonomy, one can leverage the powerful 43rd Law not as a dark art of control, but as a bright tool for leadership and collective achievement. The ethical path ensures that the influence gained is sturdy, sustainable, and generates goodwill, rather than resentment.
An Angoleiro’s Perspective on Influence and Strategy
The core of Law 43—the principle of influencing the thoughts and emotions of those around you—takes on a unique and profound meaning when viewed through the lens of an Angoleiro, a practitioner of Capoeira Angola. Capoeira, at its heart, is a sophisticated interplay of physical movement, music, tradition, and psychological strategy. The Angoleiro, rooted in the foundational and often more deceptive style of Capoeira Angola, understands that true mastery lies not merely in physical dominance, but in the subtle art of persuasion and control over the minds and hearts of the opponent and the roda (the circle of participants).
Working on the Heart (The Emotional and Spiritual Connection):
For the Angoleiro, working on the heart involves cultivating a deep emotional and spiritual connection with the people in the roda, including their opponent. This is achieved through:
The Power of the Axé:Axé is the vital energy, the spiritual force, or the aura of positive intention that permeates a Capoeira roda. The Angoleiro works on the hearts of others by being the source and conduit of strong, positive axé. A compelling Angoleiro inspires respect and engagement, drawing the community into the rhythm and the drama of the game.
Narrative and Song: The songs (quadras and corridos) sung by the Angoleiro often tell stories, impart moral lessons, and evoke deep cultural memories. By choosing the right song at the right time, the Angoleiro sets the emotional tone, stirring feelings of nostalgia, melancholy, joy, or cautious awareness, thus subtly steering the collective emotional state of the roda.
Malandragem and Deception: The apparent slowness, low-to-the-ground movements, and playful feints of Capoeira Angola are designed to elicit a specific emotional response: complacency, impatience, or overconfidence in the opponent. By patiently waiting and masking their true intentions, the Angoleiro appeals to the opponent’s heart by offering a false sense of security, making the eventual, sudden move all the more devastating and surprising.
Working on the Mind (The Strategic and Psychological Game):
Working on the mind is the strategic aspect of Law 43, executed through psychological pressure and intellectual engagement:
Pacing and Control: The Angoleiro dictates the pace of the game, often starting slow and deliberate. This mental control forces the opponent to adjust to the Angoleiro’s rhythm. By refusing to rush, the Angoleiro conserves energy and compels the opponent to expend mental effort anticipating a move that may never come.
The Element of Surprise (The Mantra of the Angoleiro): The mind is kept unsettled through constant non-verbal communication of threat mixed with harmlessness. A seemingly easy-to-read movement can turn instantly into a powerful sweep (rasteira) or an unexpected head-butt (cabeçada). This psychological warfare keeps the opponent’s mind perpetually in a state of high alert, increasing the probability of a mistake.
Chave (The Key): The experienced Angoleiro seeks the “key” to their opponent—the one weakness, the tell, or the habitual reaction they can exploit. By testing the opponent with various movements and feints, the Angoleiro is essentially running a psychological experiment, gathering data to unlock the strategy that will lead to victory.
Conclusion:
For the Angoleiro, mastering Law 43 is the ultimate form of power. It is the realization that the most effective guerreiro (warrior) is not the one with the strongest kick, but the one who can control the very air, rhythm, and mindset of the engagement. By skillfully weaving together emotional manipulation and strategic foresight, the Angoleiro turns the opponent’s heart against their mind, achieving a subtle yet complete dominance over the unfolding drama of the roda.
Happy Halloween! Tomorrow, we’re having a roda for the holiday, El Día de los Muertos, Spanish for the Day of the Dead.
The Day of the Dead is a vibrant and deeply meaningful Mexican celebration, primarily observed on November 1st and 2nd. Far from being an occasion of sorrow, it is a time of profound joy and lively remembrance. Families gather to honor and remember their deceased loved ones, rooted in the beautiful belief that the souls of the departed temporarily return to the world of the living to visit their families. This ancient tradition, with its origins in Mesoamerican indigenous cultures, is a testament to the enduring bond between the living and the dead.
The celebration is characterized by its colorful altars, known as ofrendas, which are lovingly decorated with marigolds (cempasúchil), candles, photographs of the departed, and their favorite foods and drinks. Calaveras (skulls), often made of sugar or clay and playfully decorated, are iconic symbols, reminding us of the cyclical nature of life and death. Music, dancing, storytelling, and shared meals create a festive atmosphere that embraces death not as an end, but as a continuation of the spiritual journey.
How, then, would such an individual navigate the raw grief of losing a loved one or a cherished friend? The pain of loss is universal, yet a Capoeirista might approach it with a unique blend of stoicism and emotional release. The communal aspect of the roda, the shared energy and support, would likely extend to moments of mourning. They might find solace in the shared memories, the songs, and the movements that bind them together. The grief would be felt deeply, but perhaps not as an ending, but as a transformation, echoing the constant shifts within the capoeira game itself. The spirit of the departed, like a powerful movement, might be seen as continuing to influence and inspire those left behind.
And even, how would they process the passing of an adversary, acknowledging the complex dance of life and conflict? In Capoeira, the “adversary” is often also a partner, a crucial element in the learning and growth process. There is respect even in conflict, a recognition that the opposition helps one to refine their own art. Therefore, the passing of an adversary might be met with a complex mix of emotions: perhaps a sense of completion, a reflection on the lessons learned from their interactions, and even a profound respect for the role they played in one’s own journey. The “game” of life and conflict, in this sense, would have concluded, leaving behind a legacy of shared experience.
More deeply still, how would a Capoeirista cultivate a life of resilience and joy, embracing the present moment, so that when their own time comes, they could face death not with fear, but with an open heart, grace, and profound acceptance? This is where the core philosophy of Capoeira Angola truly shines. The constant improvisation, the ability to adapt to any situation, and the emphasis on “mandinga”—the cunning and wisdom inherent in the art—all contribute to a mindset of resilience. The music, the singing, and the sheer physicality of Capoeira instill a deep sense of joy and vitality. By living fully in the present, by engaging with the world with an open heart and a willingness to learn and adapt, a Capoeirista would, in essence, be preparing for their own transition not as an end, but as another movement in the eternal dance of existence. Death, in this view, would not be an enemy to be fought, but a natural progression to be met with the same grace, rhythm, and profound acceptance that defines their life within and beyond the roda.
A Capoeirista, in their pursuit of a life imbued with resilience and joy, would embark on a profound journey of self-cultivation, deeply rooted in the philosophy and practice of Capoeira. This journey would emphasize not only physical prowess but also mental fortitude, emotional intelligence, and spiritual awareness.
Embracing the Present Moment:
Mindful Movement: The very essence of Capoeira—its fluid, improvisational movements, the call-and-response of the berimbau, and the dynamic interplay with a partner—demands complete presence. A Capoeirista learns to shed distractions and fully inhabit each ginga, each esquiva, each rabo de arraia. This constant practice of mindful movement translates into an ability to be fully present in all aspects of life, savoring each experience without dwelling on the past or fretting about the future.
Active Listening and Observation: In the roda, a Capoeirista must be acutely aware of their surroundings, anticipating their opponent’s moves and responding instinctively. This heightened sense of observation extends beyond the roda, allowing them to truly see and hear the world around them, to appreciate small details, and to engage deeply with others.
The Axé of Now: The concept of axé in Capoeira—a vital life force, energy, and good vibrations—is intrinsically linked to the present. A Capoeirista cultivates axé by fully engaging with the moment, pouring their energy into their practice, their community, and their daily interactions. This energetic embrace of the present fosters a deep sense of connection and vitality.
Cultivating Resilience:
Overcoming Physical Challenges: The demanding physical training of Capoeira builds incredible strength, flexibility, and endurance. Beyond the physical, it teaches a Capoeirista to push past perceived limitations, to embrace discomfort as a path to growth, and to develop a tenacious spirit that refuses to be easily defeated.
Navigating the Roda of Life: Capoeira, with its constant flow of attack and defense, provides a metaphorical training ground for life’s challenges. A Capoeirista learns to adapt to unexpected situations, to fall and rise again with grace, and to find creative solutions in moments of pressure. This constant negotiation within the roda builds a profound sense of adaptability and problem-solving.
Community and Support (Comunidade): The strong sense of community within Capoeira—the mutual support, encouragement, and shared struggle—is a powerful source of resilience. Knowing they are part of a larger family, a Capoeirista finds strength in their connections, understanding that they don’t have to face life’s difficulties alone.
Discipline and Perseverance: The journey to mastering Capoeira is long and arduous, requiring immense discipline and perseverance. This commitment to continuous improvement, to showing up even when tired or discouraged, instills a deep-seated resilience that extends to all areas of life, enabling them to weather setbacks and pursue long-term goals.
Nurturing Joy:
The Ginga of Happiness: The foundational ginga of Capoeira, a constant, swaying movement, embodies a playful and joyful spirit. It’s a dance, a game, and a fight all rolled into one, and this inherent playfulness permeates the Capoeirista’s outlook on life. They learn to approach challenges with a light heart and to find joy in the process, not just the outcome.
Musicality and Expression: The music of Capoeira—the rhythmic instruments, the songs, and the clapping—is an integral part of its joy. A Capoeirista learns to express themselves through music and movement, to release emotions, and to celebrate life with infectious enthusiasm. This deep connection to rhythm and self-expression becomes a wellspring of personal joy.
Connection and Celebration: The roda itself is a celebration—of culture, of skill, of community, and of life. The shared laughter, the camaraderie, and the collective energy create an atmosphere of profound joy that strengthens bonds and uplifts spirits.
Personal Growth and Self-Discovery: The journey of learning Capoeira is one of continuous self-discovery. As a Capoeirista gains new skills, overcomes fears, and deepens their understanding of themselves and their craft, they experience a profound sense of accomplishment and personal joy.
Facing Death with an Open Heart, Grace, and Profound Acceptance:
Detachment from Outcome, Attachment to Process: Capoeira teaches a certain detachment from rigid outcomes, focusing instead on the beauty and flow of the process. This mindset allows a Capoeirista to release the fear of what comes next, including death, and instead to appreciate the journey of life itself.
The Cycle of Life and Death in Nature: Drawing parallels from nature’s cycles of growth, decay, and renewal, a Capoeirista would understand death not as an end, but as a natural transition within the grand tapestry of existence. Their connection to the earth and its rhythms would foster a sense of harmony with this inevitability.
Living a Full Life: By living a life of presence, resilience, and joy, a Capoeirista would accumulate a wealth of experiences, wisdom, and meaningful connections. This rich tapestry of a life well-lived would provide a sense of completeness, diminishing the fear of what might be missed.
Grace in Every Movement: The grace cultivated in Capoeira extends beyond physical movement to a grace of being. This inner grace allows for a calm and composed acceptance of life’s ultimate transition, facing it with dignity and peace.
Legacy and Continuity: A Capoeirista understands that their impact, their axé, lives on through their students, their community, and the memories they create. This awareness of their legacy, of contributing to something larger than themselves, fosters a profound acceptance of the individual’s place within the continuum of life and death.
In essence, a Capoeirista cultivates a life that mirrors the roda itself: a continuous flow of challenge and grace, effort and joy, and ultimately, an understanding that every ending is simply a prelude to a new beginning, faced with an open heart and profound acceptance.
The intricate and beautiful interconnectedness of life, death, and the ancestral wisdom that underpins both Capoeira Angola and Día de los Muertos offers a remarkably rich tapestry for contemplation and understanding. These two seemingly disparate traditions, one a martial art, dance, and philosophy born from the transatlantic slave trade, and the other a vibrant Mesoamerican celebration of the departed, share a profound common ground in their recognition of the cyclical nature of existence and the enduring power of memory. They both serve as powerful cultural mechanisms for confronting mortality, honoring those who have passed, and reinforcing communal bonds across generations.
In Capoeira Angola, every movement, every song, every interaction in the roda (the circle where Capoeira is played) is a testament to the fleeting beauty of existence and the enduring spirit of those who came before. The slow, strategic, and often deceptive movements of Angola embody the struggles and resilience of enslaved Africans who used Capoeira as a means of resistance and cultural preservation. This physical expression, seemingly a dance, was a veiled form of combat training and a repository of cultural identity, ensuring that the spirit of freedom and defiance was never truly extinguished. The songs, often sung in call-and-response, narrate stories of hardship, liberation, and the wisdom of ancestors, invoking their presence and guidance in the present moment. These lyrical narratives are not merely historical recounts but active spiritual invocations, drawing the ancestors into the roda as participants and mentors. The berimbau, the central instrument of Capoeira, with its haunting melodies, acts as a conduit to the spiritual realm, connecting players to a lineage of practitioners and to the broader African diaspora. Its various tones and rhythms dictate the pace and energy of the game, guiding players through a ritualistic dance that blurs the lines between physical exertion and spiritual communion. Death in Capoeira is not just a physical end, but a transformation, a return to the ancestral realm from which new life and wisdom emerge. This perspective is deeply rooted in African cosmologies, where the line between the living and the dead is permeable, and ancestors actively participate in the lives of their descendants. The respect shown to elders and masters, both living and departed, highlights the continuous flow of knowledge and energy across generations, ensuring that the legacy of Capoeira, and the spirits that shaped it, remain vibrant and influential. The Axé, the vital life force and spiritual energy inherent in Capoeira, is passed down through these lineages, making each roda a living memorial and a dynamic continuation of ancestral practices.
Similarly, Día de los Muertos, with its vibrant altars (ofrendas), its joyful calaveras (skulls), and its heartfelt remembrances, provides a framework for honoring the departed, recognizing their continued presence in our lives, and celebrating the unbreakable bonds that transcend the veil of death. Far from a morbid observance, Día de los Muertos is a joyful and colorful celebration, a time when the veil between worlds is believed to thin, allowing the spirits of the deceased to return and commune with their families. Ofrendas are meticulously prepared with the favorite foods, drinks, and personal belongings of the departed, inviting them back to a world filled with love and warmth. The whimsical calaveras, often depicted as elegant skeletons engaged in lively activities, serve as a playful reminder of the universality of death and the importance of living life to the fullest. Through storytelling, shared meals, and the creation of beautiful artworks, families actively engage in a dialogue with their ancestors, reinforcing their identity and connection to a rich cultural heritage. This tradition emphasizes that while the physical presence may be gone, the love, influence, and memories of the departed continue to shape and enrich the lives of the living.
Both traditions, in their unique expressions, remind us that death is not an end but a transition, a part of the grand cycle of being, and an opportunity to deepen our appreciation for the precious gift of life itself. They teach us that acknowledging our mortality can lead to a more profound understanding of our humanity and a greater capacity for joy and connection. By embracing the wisdom of those who came before, and by creating spaces for remembrance and celebration, Capoeira Angola and Día de los Muertos offer powerful models for navigating the complexities of life and death, fostering a sense of continuity, community, and an enduring respect for the past that enriches the present and informs the future. They are living testaments to the universal human need to make sense of our existence, to honor our roots, and to find beauty and meaning even in the face of impermanence.
I will delve deeper into the intricate relationship between Capoeira Angola and the concept of death in a future blog post. This complex subject merits a thorough exploration, examining how the philosophy and practice of Capoeira Angola confront, symbolize, or even transcend mortality. We will explore the historical and cultural roots of Capoeira Angola, tracing its origins back to the enslaved African communities in Brazil and understanding how their struggles and beliefs shaped its worldview. This will involve analyzing specific movements, rituals, and musical elements within Capoeira Angola to uncover their hidden meanings and connections to themes of life, death, rebirth, and the ancestral realm. Furthermore, we will consider how individual practitioners experience and interpret these profound concepts through their engagement with the art form, potentially offering insights into personal resilience, confronting fear, and finding meaning in the face of impermanence. For now, however, let us set aside these profound reflections and fully embrace the spirit of the upcoming holiday, looking forward to a time of celebration and joy.
Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER, a blog series that explores the strategies of human interactions, including communication, conflict resolution, negotiation, and manipulation. It discusses leadership, personal branding, and online reputation management, providing practical strategies for influence and relationship-building. Through analysis and examples, the series aims to help readers navigate interpersonal relationships successfully.
In this installment, we will explore the 34th law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can buy a copy by clicking HERE.
LAW 34: BE ROYAL IN YOUR OWN FASHION. ACT LIKE A KING TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE.
This philosophy encourages individuals to embrace their unique identities and strengths with confidence, reminding us that true royalty comes from within. By cultivating a mindset of self-worth and dignity, you not only elevate yourself but also inspire those around you to recognize their own innate value. In a world often filled with comparisons and societal pressures, it’s vital to celebrate our individual journeys and the distinct qualities that make us who we are.
When we honor ourselves authentically, we create a ripple effect, encouraging others to shed their insecurities and fully express their true selves as well. This shared journey of empowerment fosters a stronger, more connected community where everyone feels valued and appreciated for their contributions. As we uplift each other, we collectively build a space that honors diversity and individuality, illustrating that self-acceptance is a powerful catalyst for positive change in our lives and the lives of those we touch.
Surround yourself with positivity, make decisions that reflect your principles, and carry yourself with grace. Remember, the way you present yourself to the world will often dictate how the world responds to you, so wear your crown proudly and let your actions set the standard for how others should treat you. By embodying kindness and confidence, you not only uplift yourself but also inspire those around you to rise to the same level of respect and dignity.
Each interaction is an opportunity to reinforce your values; therefore, choose your words and actions carefully, ensuring they align with the legacy you wish to leave behind. In moments of challenge, stand firm in your beliefs, knowing that your authenticity shines through even in the face of adversity. Embrace the journey of self-improvement, as every step forward brings you closer to becoming the best version of yourself.
How to Navigate the 34th Law of Power with an Ethical Compass
The 34th Law of Power, often summarized as “Be Royal in Your Own Fashion: Act Like a King to Be Treated Like One,” is a principle rooted in presenting an image of self-assurance, confidence, and inherent value. This law suggests that by embodying the outward characteristics of royalty—dignity, generosity, and an unshakeable belief in one’s own worth—others will naturally respond by granting you respect, deference, and the resources associated with high status. It is a psychological tool for influencing perception and, consequently, reality.
However, the pursuit of power and influence must be tempered by a strong ethical framework. Applying the 34th Law ethically means leveraging its psychological mechanisms without resorting to deceit, exploitation, or arrogance. It transforms the law from a tool of manipulation into a principle of genuine, value-driven leadership.Ethical Pillars for Implementing the 34th Law
To ensure an ethical application, one must focus on the substance behind the royal facade:
1. Authentic Self-Possession, Not Arrogance:
The Ethical Approach: The “royal” demeanor should stem from deep, authentic self-respect and competence, not from a manufactured superiority complex. Ethically, this means putting in the work to earn the confidence you project. True self-possession is quiet, grounded, and secure, recognizing the value in oneself while respecting the value in others.
The Unethical Pitfall: Using a show of arrogance, entitlement, or contempt for others to mask insecurity or a lack of substance. This damages relationships and is ultimately unsustainable.
2. Generosity and Reciprocity (The Royal Patron):
The Ethical Approach: Historical royalty often maintained their status through calculated acts of generosity—patronage, providing protection, and bestowing honors. Ethically, this translates to being a leader who genuinely supports their team, shares credit, mentors subordinates, and contributes value far beyond what is strictly required. The power you accrue is used to lift others up.
The Unethical Pitfall: Being a “tyrant” who hoards resources, demands service without offering commensurate value, or acts purely out of self-interest. This may grant short-term obedience but breeds resentment and instability.
3. Maintaining Dignity Through Integrity:
The Ethical Approach: The royal image is preserved through consistency, transparency (where appropriate), and a commitment to one’s stated values. Ethical application of the 34th Law means avoiding petty disputes, refraining from gossip, and always honoring one’s word. A king’s word is his bond; an ethical leader’s word is their reputation.
The Unethical Pitfall: Engaging in duplicitous behavior, making false promises, or allowing your actions to be inconsistent with your projected image. This quickly erodes trust, and without trust, the projected image of “royalty” collapses into farce.
4. Focusing on Service and Purpose:
The Ethical Approach: The most ethical expression of the 34th Law is when the projected image of competence and authority serves a higher, positive purpose—leading a successful initiative, advocating for a just cause, or creating genuine value for a community or organization. The power is not an end in itself but a means to achieve constructive goals.
The Unethical Pitfall: Adopting the “royal” persona solely for personal gain, luxury, or to dominate others, leading to a focus on superficial status rather than meaningful contribution.
Practical Ethical Application Steps
Define Your True Value: Identify the unique skills, expertise, and positive influence you bring to a situation. This is the foundation of your legitimate claim to a “royal” status.
Project Confidence, Not Conceit: Use body language, clear communication, and decisive action to project competence. Ensure your confidence is always paired with humility—a willingness to listen, learn, and admit mistakes.
Invest in Your Appearance and Environment: Presenting a professional, thoughtful image is an ethical signal that you respect your role, your time, and the people you are engaging with. This is not about extravagance but about care and quality.
Practice Strategic Generosity: Be liberal with praise, mentorship, and opportunities for others. Make deposits into your relational capital by being a reliable source of support and fair treatment.
By focusing on these ethical underpinnings, the 34th Law of Power becomes a framework for powerful, yet principled, leadership, ensuring that the influence you gain is both lasting and morally sound.
The 34th law of power, through the eyes of an Angoleiro:
For those who walk the path of Capoeira Angola, the 34th Law of Power—Be Royal in Your Own Fashion: Act Like a King to Be Treated Like One—takes on a profound, almost spiritual significance. It is not about ostentatious wealth or inherited titles, but about the postura (posture), the inherent dignity, and the self-respect that define a true master, or Mestre.
In the roda (the circle where Capoeira is played), the Angoleiro learns to carry themselves with an internal regality, a quiet confidence that commands respect without demanding it. This “royalty” is earned through:
Mastery of the Jogo (Game): A Mestre’s authority is rooted in their deep, fluid knowledge of the movements, the songs (quadras and corridos), the rhythms of the berimbau, and the history of the art. Their every move—slow, deliberate, and efficient—is the expression of a cultivated mind and body. They don’t have to boast; their jogo speaks for them.
The Axé (Life Force/Energy): Royalty in Angola is synonymous with a strong axé. It’s the powerful, positive energy and presence they bring into the roda. When they enter, the energy shifts. They are the anchor, the one who sustains the fire and depth of the game. They hold the wisdom and the spirit of the lineage.
Self-Control and Patience: Acting like a king means never showing desperation, fear, or petty anger. A true Angoleiro maintains a calm, almost impenetrable demeanor. They are deliberate, observing the flow, waiting for the perfect moment to execute a dangerous rasteira (takedown) or a clever malandragem (trickery). Their patience is their power; they rule the space by not rushing the interaction.
Humildade(Humility) as a Crown: Paradoxically, the highest form of Capoeira “royalty” is not arrogance, but profound humility. A Mestre understands that the art is bigger than any single person. They serve the roda and the tradition. This genuine humility—the willingness to always be a student—is what makes their authority magnetic and legitimate, rather than tyrannical.
To be “royal in your own fashion” as an Angoleiro is to embody the legacy of the enslaved Africans who created this art as a form of cultural and physical resistance. It means carrying the weight of that history with dignity, showing that even without physical chains, one possesses an unbreakable spirit—the spirit of a sovereign within their own skin. Their postura is a statement: “I am worthy of respect because I respect the art, my ancestors, and myself.” They are treated like a king because they act like the living embodiment of the Rei da Capoeira (King of Capoeira).
Today is Juneteenth. It is worth observing and it is more than worth celebrating, as it marks a pivotal moment in our collective history and a powerful reminder of our enduring struggle for freedom and equality.
But we didn’t need the very government that enslaved our people to give us permission to honor our own history; our resilience and triumphs have always been a source of strength and pride within our communities. We have carried the heavy burden of a painful past, yet we have transformed that suffering into a tapestry of culture and heritage that celebrates our identity. From the stories passed down through generations to the vibrant expressions of art, music, and dance that echo our ancestors’ voices, we acknowledge the struggles while embracing the undeniable spirit that has propelled us forward. Each milestone achieved, whether in education, leadership, or social justice, serves as a testament to our unwavering commitment to uplift one another and forge a brighter future.
Now, as I said in another POST, we had a Roda and Potluck today. It was a beautiful display of love, brotherhood, and solidarity among all participants, creating an atmosphere rich in cultural heritage and community spirit.
The energy was palpable as we gathered together to share not only food but also stories and laughter, fostering connections that bridge our differences. The rhythm of Capoeira Angola echoed through the space, inviting everyone to join in the movements, transcending barriers and uniting us through the art form that we all cherish. Witnessing such harmony and joy inspired a sense of gratitude for the shared experiences and the vibrant tapestry of our collective journey.
We must all come together in recognition of the sacrifices made by those who came before us, acknowledging their struggles and the legacies they left behind. It is vital to honor the ancestors who bravely faced the adversities of their time, enduring hardships and injustices that many cannot fathom today. Remember the ancestors who fought against oppression and dreamed of a brighter future for us all, envisioning a world where equality and justice reign.
Recall the tireless efforts and the relentless spirit that fueled their fight, paving the way for progress and change. Remember the debt that is owed, not only to those who suffered under slavery but also to those who continue to fight against injustice today, standing up for the marginalized and voicing the concerns of the unheard.
Their courage serves as an inspiration, reminding us of the importance of advocacy and activism. As we reflect on their unwavering spirit, we are called to action, encouraging a collective movement where every voice matters. And remember ALL who owe it, for the responsibility to uplift and empower one another lies within each of us. This duty demands that we not only raise awareness of the challenges faced by marginalized communities but also actively engage in solutions that foster change.
And in that spirit, I’d like to discuss the ICE raids a little bit. At the Roda, our sister soldier Eva recently left some informative flyers from an organization called Union Del Barrio, which is dedicated to empowering ordinary citizens with the knowledge and skills they need to protect themselves and their communities from invasive ICE raids.
These flyers outline critical training sessions and resources designed to raise awareness about immigrants’ rights and ensure that individuals are prepared to respond effectively in challenging situations. I highly encourage everyone to click HERE to check them out and delve deeper into the fantastic initiatives they are actively involved in, as well as to discover various ways you can contribute to their crucial mission and support the fight for justice and dignity for all community members.
Together, as we work towards a more just and equitable world, we must commit to listening, learning, and building bridges across divides. By fostering a community in which everyone, regardless of their background, can thrive and flourish in harmony, we create a shared environment where mutual respect and collaboration flourish, paving the way for future generations to inherit a brighter, more inclusive society.
Welcome to the Survivor Series, where we focus on Urban and Wilderness Survival by exploring essential skills, practical tips, and strategies to prepare for unexpected challenges that life may throw your way. This comprehensive series covers a multitude of crucial topics such as adaptable shelter-building techniques that can be applied in both rural and urban settings, effective food sourcing through foraging and innovative urban solutions that ensure you can find nourishment no matter where you are, and self-defense methods tailored for various scenarios, empowering you to protect yourself and your loved ones. Additionally, the significance of mental resilience and situational awareness will be emphasized, as these traits are fundamental in overcoming adversity and making sound decisions under pressure.
Join us as we dive deeper into these subjects, providing you with the knowledge and skills needed to navigate both familiar and unfamiliar environments, ultimately enhancing your survival skills and empowering yourself to face any situation with confidence.
In this captivating video, a determined man builds a waterproof Viking-style bushcraft shelter using only natural materials found within the lush confines of a rainforest, all while grappling with the challenges posed by heavy rain and the rumble of a thunderstorm overhead.
The immersive experience exceptionally showcases not just the intensity of the elements but also the intricate art of primitive shelter building, offering viewers an unfiltered glimpse into the raw power of nature. Without any distracting voiceovers or music, the focus remains solely on essential survival skills and the intricate process of outdoor crafting, inviting the audience to fully engage with each step of the construction.
This video is meticulously tailored for those who share a passion for jungle bushcraft or have an interest in Viking-inspired shelters, providing both education and inspiration for adventurers and survival enthusiasts alike. Embrace the challenge, learn valuable techniques, and appreciate the beauty of creating shelter under such extreme conditions.
Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER, a blog series that explores strategy in interactions, focusing on effective communication, conflict resolution, and building connections. It covers topics like negotiation techniques, manipulation tactics, leadership skills, personal branding, and online reputation management to equip you with tools for navigating power dynamics and achieving success in social and professional settings.
In this installment, we will explore the 20th law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can but a copy by clicking HERE.
LAW 20 PART 1: DO NOT COMMIT TO ANYONE
DO NOT COMMIT TO ANYONE, as relationships can often lead to complications that may hinder personal growth and freedom. It is essential to focus on your own goals and aspirations, allowing yourself the space to explore new opportunities without being tied down. This journey of self-discovery not only empowers you but also cultivates resilience, enabling you to navigate life’s challenges with confidence.
By prioritizing your independence, you can develop a stronger sense of self and make decisions that truly align with your values and desires, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life experience. Embracing your individuality can open doors to vast experiences, enriching your life in ways that relationships may sometimes overshadow, allowing you to fully realize your potential while enjoying the journey of life on your own terms. This journey of self-discovery not only fosters personal growth but also enhances your ability to interact meaningfully with others.
When you understand and embrace who you are, you cultivate a confident self-image that enables you to pursue your passions wholeheartedly. Furthermore, being independent means that you can explore varied interests and activities without feeling beholden to the preferences of others, leading to unique opportunities and memorable adventures that shape your character and resilience. Through independence, you learn to trust your intuition and judgment, creating a solid foundation for future endeavors, while also inspiring those around you to seek their own paths toward self-fulfillment.
The 20th Law of Power: Do Not Commit to Anyone, as viewed through the philosophical and physical lens of an Angoleiro of Capoeira Angola.
This exploration delves into the nuanced application of the Machiavellian principle, “Do Not Commit to Anyone,” interpreting it not as a call for outright disloyalty or isolation, but as a strategic path toward maintaining autonomy, flexibility, and a balanced perspective, a vital necessity for practitioners of Capoeira Angola.The Angoleiro’s Stance: Malícia, Autonomy, and the Roda
For the Angoleiro, a student and master of Capoeira Angola, life is a constant jogo (game/dance) where power dynamics are subtle yet profound. The 20th Law is translated into the core Capoeira concepts of malícia (cunning, street smarts) and corpo fechado (literally “closed body,” meaning spiritual and mental protection).
Strategic Neutrality and the Malícia: An Angoleiro must cultivate malícia—the ability to read the unspoken intentions of others and to navigate conflicts without taking a permanent, limiting side. Committing absolutely to one faction, one patron, or one rigid dogma is to forfeit the ultimate weapon: unpredictability. In the roda (the circle where Capoeira is played), an opponent who is too predictable is easily countered. Similarly, in life, an individual too closely aligned with a singular source of power becomes vulnerable to that source’s eventual downfall or changing whims. The Angoleiro maintains a position of watchful neutrality, allowing them to shift alliances or retreat gracefully when necessary, mirroring the evasive, fluid movements of the jogo.
Freedom of Movement and the Ginga: The ginga is the foundational, continuous movement of Capoeira. It is not merely a warm-up; it is a philosophy of perpetual motion and non-commitment to a fixed point. An Angoleiro who commits to a static position in the roda is immediately exposed to attack. Applying this to the 20th Law, “Do Not Commit to Anyone” means never allowing a single person, organization, or ideology to become your permanent, unmoving center. This freedom ensures the Angoleiro‘s path is always their own, enabling them to move around and utilize multiple resources (patrons, teachers, communities) without being bound by their limitations or demands. They become the essential, free-floating element that others must court, rather than the beholden servant.
Patronage and Independence (The Mestre and the System): Historically, Capoeira masters often had to navigate complex political and social landscapes, relying on temporary patrons for survival and the right to practice. The wise master learned not to be permanently indebted. The law advises keeping a distance even from powerful mentors or Mestres once their essential teachings have been absorbed. While respect and loyalty are paramount, absolute commitment risks becoming a mere reflection or extension of the patron, stifling one’s own unique development. The goal is to establish one’s own independent school and authority—a roda that orbits no one but is respected by all.
Playing the Game of Demand: By refusing to commit fully, the Angoleiro keeps their services scarce and their value high. If you are known to be solely dedicated to one cause, your commitment is assumed, and your influence diminishes. If you are the sought-after neutral expert—the one who can be temporarily persuaded by various sides—both parties will vie for your attention and loyalty, granting you greater leverage and independence than a fully committed subordinate. This strategic ambiguity is the essence of advanced jogo.
In conclusion, for the Angoleiro, the 20th Law is a principle of survival and supremacy: maintain the freedom to move, the clarity to observe, and the distance to negotiate, ensuring that one’s power remains rooted in self-possession, not in the fluctuating fortunes of others.
Welcome to the Self-Defense series, designed to empower you through physical, mental, spiritual, and legal aspects that are crucial in today’s world. This comprehensive program provides essential skills for protection, promoting not just readiness, resilience, and confidence but also a deep understanding of personal safety. We cover a wide range of self-defense strategies that include practical techniques and situational awareness, coupled with psychological components that help build a strong mindset to face potential threats. Additionally, we explore spiritual practices that enhance your inner strength and focus, fostering a sense of peace and balance. The legal frameworks discussed are vital for encouraging informed actions that ensure your rights are upheld, while also contributing to a sense of responsibility within the community. Ultimately, this series is not just about defense; it’s a journey towards personal growth and empowerment that prepares you for challenges both on and off the mat.
In today’s installment…
How far would you defend yourself or others in dangerous situations? In this video are some compelling examples of actual situations that showcase the courage and quick thinking of individuals when faced with threats.
For instance, you’ll see a woman who bravely fights off a robber in a store, demonstrating not only her strength but also her determination to protect herself and her belongings. Her prompt response serves as a reminder of the importance of being aware of one’s surroundings and having the confidence to act when necessary. Additionally, there is a situation where a woman comes to the aid of an autistic customer being harassed, illustrating the importance of standing up for those who may not be able to defend themselves. This particular incident sheds light on the social responsibility we hold towards the vulnerable individuals in our communities, reminding us that kindness and bravery can coexist in even the most challenging circumstances.
Of course, law enforcement does not advise that someone goes up against an armed attacker, for that is extremely dangerous. However, these real-life scenarios provoke thought about the lengths we are willing to go to ensure safety for ourselves and others, sparking important conversations about personal responsibility and altruism in today’s society. Such discussions encourage us to reflect on our values and the actions we might take to foster a safer environment, not just for ourselves but for those around us who may need our support. Moreover, contemplating our responses to dangerous situations can lead to a deeper understanding of the complexities surrounding personal safety, community vigilance, and the moral obligations we have towards our fellow citizens.
It raises questions such as: What measures are we prepared to take when confronted with violence? What role do bystanders play in crisis situations, and how can we empower individuals to act wisely and safely? Engaging in these reflections can galvanize us into proactive community involvement, driving efforts to educate ourselves about self-defense, emergency preparedness, and intervention strategies, ultimately working together to build a society where safety and compassion are paramount.
Jogo Corpo Fechado 