This is for you “PASSPORT BROS” out there who want to leave your country and find a wife elsewhere. While the idea of exploring new cultures and finding love across borders is tempting, it’s crucial to be aware of the potential pitfalls involved in such a journey. There are women in those countries who are there just to take all the money you have, using charm and allure to draw you in, often leading to relationships that are insincere.

These experiences can leave you penniless and heartbroken, shattered by the realization that their affection was a facade. If you’re lucky enough to find genuine love, cherish it deeply, but always proceed with caution and conduct thorough research about the culture, the people, and the realities of dating in a foreign land. So, be careful and keep your heart—and wallet—protected as you navigate this adventurous path.

We will cover more about the marriage scam in the future, delving into its various intricacies and the emotional manipulation often involved. Additionally, we will explore the notorious “Sprinkle Sprinkle” scammer, examining the techniques she employed to ensnare victims, as well as the widespread movement she created. This movement, initially appearing innocuous, raised numerous questions about ethical conduct and the vulnerability of individuals seeking love and companionship in today’s digital age. By analyzing these aspects, we aim to shed light on the tactics used by these scammers and the importance of awareness to protect oneself from falling victim to such schemes.

Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER. This blog series aims to delve deep into the realm of Strategy. Throughout the series, we will explore various aspects of dealing with certain people, offering insights on effective communication, conflict resolution, and building meaningful connections. Additionally, we will provide valuable tips on avoiding scammers, protecting oneself from online fraud, and maintaining a secure online presence.

Navigating the world we live in can be challenging. In this series, we will share practical guidance on making informed decisions, embracing opportunities, and overcoming obstacles on the path to success. Whether it’s negotiation, identifying manipulation, or honing leadership skills, this series will equip you with the knowledge to thrive in interpersonal dynamics and strategic decision-making. We will also explore personal branding, self-presentation, and managing online reputation, empowering you to craft a compelling image in today’s digital world. Join us as we unravel the complexities of power dynamics and relations, arming you with the expertise to emerge victorious in your pursuits.

In this installment, we will explore the 10th law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can but a copy by clicking HERE.

Law 10: Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.

You’ll die from other’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as diseases, spreading from one person to another without any physical contact. The unfortunate draw misfortune on themselves and will inevitably begin to draw it on you as well, creating a cycle of negativity that can be hard to break. Their pessimism and despair can cloud your judgment and alter your outlook on life.

Instead, it is wise to associate with the happy and fortunate, those who radiate positivity and inspire hope. By surrounding yourself with individuals who uplift and motivate you, you can create a protective barrier against the emotional toxicity that often lurks in negative company. Engaging with such people not only enhances your mood but also encourages personal growth and resilience in the face of challenges. Remember, the company you keep plays a significant role in shaping your perspective and emotional well-being; it influences your thoughts, behaviors, and even your aspirations. Therefore, actively seeking out relationships with positive, supportive individuals can lead to a more fulfilling life, where joy and motivation flourish, allowing you to navigate life’s obstacles with greater ease and determination.

The 10th Law of Attraction: The Rhythm of Intention, Through the Eyes of an Angoleiro

—–Introduction: Beyond the Mere Thought

The Law of Attraction is often simplified to “think positive, and good things will happen.” While positive thought is a crucial component, it is merely the seed. The true mastery of attraction—the 10th Law—lies in the sustained, embodied practice of intention, a concept best understood through the philosophy and movement of Capoeira Angola.

The Angoleiro, a practitioner of Capoeira Angola, understands that intention is not static; it is a rhythm, a continuous dialogue between the inner self and the external world. His movements, simultaneously defensive and playful, are not random acts but physical manifestations of deep-seated purpose, mirroring the subtle yet powerful process by which desires are drawn into reality.I. Ginga: The Foundation of Unwavering Flow

The core movement in Capoeira Angola is the Ginga—a perpetual, rhythmic rocking motion. It is not a stance but a state of being, a continuous flow that never settles into a fixed position.

• In Attraction: The Ginga represents the foundational principle of the 10th Law: unwavering faith and continuous alignment. You do not manifest your desire once and then wait; you live in the vibration of that desire perpetually. The Ginga teaches that to stand still is to be vulnerable and stuck; to flow is to maintain momentum and preparedness. An Angoleiro is always moving, always adjusting, always anticipating—just as the most successful attractors are always maintaining a high vibrational frequency, regardless of immediate external circumstances. The Ginga is the commitment to the rhythm of your goal.

II. Malícia: The Subtle Art of Intention

Malícia translates literally to “malice” or “cunning,” but in the context of Capoeira, it signifies the profound, subtle wisdom to read the environment, anticipate the opponent’s moves, and execute a plan that appears effortless and surprising.

• In Attraction: Malícia is the Law of Intuitive Action and Energetic Intelligence. It’s the ability to discern the precise moment and path of least resistance for inspired action. It’s not about forcing the outcome; it’s about being spiritually and mentally sharp enough to recognize the opportunities—the “openings” in the universe—that lead directly to your manifestation. The Angoleiro uses his Malícia not to harm, but to conserve energy and move with maximum efficiency. Similarly, the 10th Law dictates that effective attraction involves intelligent, aligned action, not frantic, uninspired effort.

III. Aú: The Courage of Transformation

The Aú is the cartwheel, a move that is deceptively simple yet fundamentally transformative. When performed in the roda (the circle where Capoeira is played), the Aú exposes the Angoleiro to great vulnerability. Yet, it is also a move of escape, transition, and repositioning.

• In Attraction: The Aú represents the Law of Courageous Vulnerability and Required Transformation. To attract a major desire, one often has to “turn one’s world upside down”—to shift perspective, exit a comfort zone, or embrace a temporary state of vulnerability (like starting a new business or ending a toxic relationship). The Aú is the willingness to execute the dramatic, necessary energetic shift. It teaches that the path to a higher vibration often requires a moment where you are completely “exposed” to the new reality before you land securely in it.

IV. Axé: The Collective Power of Belief

Axé (pronounced ah-shay) is a Yoruba term fundamental to Afro-Brazilian culture. It embodies the living, spiritual power, the divine force that makes things happen. In the roda, the collective energy, the music, the call-and-response—it all accumulates Axé.In Attraction: Axé is the Law of Resonance and Collective Contribution. It recognizes that while your desire is personal, the energy required to manifest it is often amplified by the world around you. Your focus, your passion, and your rhythm (Ginga) create an energetic vibration that contributes to the collective human experience, and the universe responds in kind. The 10th Law concludes that the most potent manifestations are those that are not purely selfish but carry a degree of Axé—a life force, a benefit, or a powerful energy that elevates the vibration of others as well as the self.

Welcome to the domestic violence series. I created this series to help spread awareness about this subject, BECAUSE as a martial artist, you shouldn’t just be thinking about defending yourself, but about defending others as well.

Especially those who can’t defend themselves.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is a particularly EVIL form of abuse because the perpetrators not only target the weakest in our society, but it also trains the instinct to protect oneself out of those people, leaving them vulnerable and traumatized. This cycle of violence perpetuates a culture of fear, where victims often feel trapped and powerless to escape their abusers. The profound psychological impact can diminish their self-worth, making it increasingly difficult to seek help. Moreover, domestic violence affects not just the individuals directly involved but also ripples through families and communities, creating an environment where silence prevails and the cycle is more likely to continue. Raising awareness and fostering open dialogues about this issue are crucial steps toward breaking these chains and supporting survivors in their journey towards healing and empowerment.

In this installment, I want to revisit something I posted about before, about a signal victims are using she used to alert people if they are in trouble.

I was watching this video today, and the lead actress here used this signal to alert her rescuer.

This is the signal:

As I “typed” before, although I’m increasingly concerned that this signal may be a bit less effective now, since a potential abuser might see this video or others like it and recognize the signal, I believe it’s worth posting; after all, there is a chance that a potential victim out there may see this, and it may help them in ways we cannot fully predict.

By shedding light on these important signals, we can create a more informed community that recognizes the nuances of abusive behavior. This, in turn, could empower those who feel trapped or unsure about their circumstances to seek help. Ultimately, while the risk of exposure exists, the potential benefit of reaching someone who truly needs guidance far outweighs the drawbacks of sharing this crucial message. It is essential that we remain vigilant and proactive in spreading awareness, as it could save a life or change a situation dramatically for someone who feels alone in their struggle.

Well, that’s it for this post. Remember,

Whomever you are, wherever you are, if you’re going through domestic violence, you are not alone, and

HELP IS AVAILABLE.

Please click HERE, and speak with someone today.

I just saw this random video while surfing YouTube, and I had to post about it.

Female sports reporters being harassed on live TV is an issue that has persisted for far too long. For some reason, rowdy men think it is fine to kiss women without their permission while they’re on air, completely disregarding their personal boundaries and professionalism. This behavior not only undermines the hard work and dedication of these reporters but also tarnishes the integrity of sports journalism as a whole.

This disruptive and disrespectful tradition is nothing new, and it points to a larger societal problem regarding respect and consent. These incidents highlight the pressing need for a cultural shift, where women can perform their jobs without fear of harassment or objectification.

ASTOUNDINGLY, THIS IS A REALITY THAT NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED IMMEDIATELY, AND IT’S SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO STOP.

So, any of you “MANLY MEN” out there who feels it’s okay to violate a woman’s personal space while they’re trying to work…

STOP IT ASSHOLE!!!!!

Welcome to TODAY IN BLACK MEDIA, the go-to source for news, cultural events, and thought-provoking discussions from an African American perspective. Our platform is dedicated to shedding light on the rich tapestry of black experiences, amplifying diverse voices, and celebrating the achievements of the black community worldwide.

Join us as we explore the latest developments, delve into thought-provoking analyses, and showcase the vibrant cultural manifestations that shape our collective identity. Whether you’re passionate about current affairs, arts and entertainment, or social justice issues, you’ll find compelling content that resonates with you.

In today’s installment we will once again explore the amazing city of Salvador Da Bahia, in Brazil’s northeast.

Salvador Bahia is known as the “African Capital” of Brazil, a title that reflects its rich heritage and vibrant cultural tapestry. In this captivating video, we see this historically significant city through the eyes of ACE the traveller, as he tours the bustling streets of Salvador Bahia. With each step, ACE delves deeper into the fascinating history and traditions of the Black people who have profoundly influenced the culture of this city.

From the colorful markets that echo with the sounds of local music to the stunning colonial architecture that tells stories of the past, Salvador is a living tribute to the resilience and creativity of its people. As ACE interacts with local residents, tasting traditional dishes and learning about the dynamic festivals that celebrate African roots, viewers are taken on an enlightening journey that showcases the soul of Salvador Bahia, revealing why it is often regarded as a cultural capital.

Shootout to ACE for making this fantastic video that has truly captured our attention. His creative approach and engaging content make every moment worthwhile. If you’re interested in discovering more amazing videos and content, please click HERE to check out his channel, where you’ll find a wealth of entertaining and informative material that is sure to keep you coming back for more. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to support a talented creator and explore the unique offerings he has in store!

The majority of police in the world are good men and women who serve their communities with honor and dignity. Unfortunately, there are bad police officers who abuse the law and hurt their communities. Multiple factors contribute to the differences among law enforcement officers, and it is crucial to address those factors to ensure the safety and well-being of all individuals within society.

These are their stories.

In this installment…

Olayemi Olurin tells the poignant stories of Lakeith Smith, Tay K, and numerous others who have been profoundly affected by the felony murder rule, highlighting the complexities and consequences of this legal doctrine. Through a detailed examination of their experiences, she sheds light on the often-misunderstood implications of being charged under such a law, which can lead to severe penalties for individuals who may not have directly taken a life but were present during a crime.

These narratives serve not only as a call for reform but also as a reminder of the human lives impacted by rigid legal frameworks, emphasizing the need for compassion and justice in the legal system. They highlight the stories of individuals whose experiences are often overshadowed by complex regulations and bureaucratic procedures, revealing the emotional toll of such systems. By sharing these personal accounts, we can foster a deeper understanding of the significance of empathy within the law, pushing for a system that not only punishes but also rehabilitates and supports those affected. This underscores the urgent necessity for reform that prioritizes the human element and seeks to create a more equitable society for all individuals, especially those who find themselves at the mercy of a system that often neglects their basic needs and rights.

Welcome to MALICIA AS A GAME OF POWER. This blog series aims to delve deep into the realm of Strategy. Throughout the series, we will explore various aspects of dealing with certain people, offering insights on effective communication, conflict resolution, and building meaningful connections. Additionally, we will provide valuable tips on avoiding scammers, protecting oneself from online fraud, and maintaining a secure online presence.

Navigating the world we live in can be challenging. In this series, we will share practical guidance on making informed decisions, embracing opportunities, and overcoming obstacles on the path to success. Whether it’s negotiation, identifying manipulation, or honing leadership skills, this series will equip you with the knowledge to thrive in interpersonal dynamics and strategic decision-making. We will also explore personal branding, self-presentation, and managing online reputation, empowering you to craft a compelling image in today’s digital world. Join us as we unravel the complexities of power dynamics and relations, arming you with the expertise to emerge victorious in your pursuits.

In this installment, We will explore the 9th law of power in the book, the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. You can but a copy by clicking HERE.

The ninth law (law 9) of the 48 Laws of Power is: Win through your actions, never through argument.

Argument vs Action. Why one is immeasurably better than the other will be explored. See, we all argue at some point or another but this might not be the wisest course of action unless we take the time to consider the implications of our words and decisions. Engaging in disputes can often lead to confusion and conflict, detracting from the goal we initially set out to achieve. Not only does argumentation consume valuable time and energy, but it can also escalate tensions, creating divides that hinder our ability to work as a cohesive unit. On the contrary, taking decisive action allows us to move forward and fosters positive change, encouraging collaboration and understanding among individuals. When we prioritize action over argument, we create an environment conducive to growth and innovation, paving the way for solutions rather than prolonging disagreements. Embracing action encourages us to focus on tangible outcomes, driving us towards shared objectives and collective success while minimizing the friction that often accompanies heated debates.

The exploration delves deeply into Law 9 of Robert Greene’s seminal work, The 48 Laws of Power, which forcefully advocates for “Winning Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument.” This principle, at its core, is a call for silent, irrefutable demonstration of capability over the hollow noise of verbal defense or aggressive challenge. This analysis is uniquely filtered and enriched through the perspective of an angoleiro, a revered practitioner and master of Capoeira Angola.

The angoleiro tradition is not merely a martial art; it is a profound philosophy steeped in subtlety, historical resistance, and the deep, often concealed, art of movement, rhythm, and strategy. This tradition provides an unparalleled and powerful lens for interpreting Law 9, transforming an intellectual concept into a visceral, lived experience.

In the roda—the dynamic circle where Capoeira is played—the philosophy of Law 9 is put into immediate practice. The master angoleiro understands instinctively that verbal confrontation, whether in the form of boasting, complaint, or even aggressive argument about the game’s rules or quality, is almost always a display of insecurity and poor strategy. Such noise distracts from the core purpose: demonstrating mastery.

True power in the roda is not measured by the volume of one’s voice, but by the efficacy, control, poise, and intelligence of the physical game. The body becomes the argument; the execution is the evidence. If an angoleiro is challenged or criticized, they do not launch into a verbal defense; they simply allow their next movement, their jogo (game), to serve as the silent, devastating retort.

We will explore how the core tenets of Capoeira Angola perfectly embody and elevate Law 9:

1. Espera (Patience and Waiting): This is the strategic non-action that precedes decisive action. The angoleiro waits, not out of fear, but to study the opponent’s rhythm, weaknesses, and emotional state. In the context of Law 9, espera means resisting the urge to argue or react immediately. By withholding a verbal response, one maintains control, allowing the opponent to exhaust their energy and reveal their hand, making the eventual physical action all the more impactful and unanswerable.
2. Deceptive Slowness: Capoeira Angola often employs a slow, fluid, almost dance-like pace. This slowness is a tactical ruse. It lulls the opponent into a false sense of security, masking the explosive potential held in reserve. This aligns with Law 9 by avoiding an overt, aggressive challenge. Instead of arguing for dominance, the master simply presents a disarmingly calm exterior, only to strike with “irrefutable grace and precision” when the timing is perfect.
3. Malícia (Malice/Strategic Cunning): This is the highest form of intelligence in Capoeira—the use of the opponent’s own energy, momentum, and hubris against them. A master angoleiro never wastes energy fighting a direct battle; they shift, evade, and redirect. This is the ultimate expression of Law 9: why argue and expend social or emotional capital when one can use the opponent’s own aggressive verbal energy (or physical attack) to create the opening for a silent, winning action?

In essence, a master angoleiro rarely needs to argue about the quality of their game or the righteousness of their moves because they execute them with a quiet authority that defies critique. The silent action speaks louder than any defense or aggressive challenge, proving mastery and dominance without resorting to the weakness of a verbal skirmish. This approach transforms the intellectual concept of Law 9 into a dynamic, lived philosophy of silent, decisive action and strategic non-confrontation—a victory earned not in the theater of words, but in the undeniable reality of the executed jogo.

I’d like to thank Shayan Wahedi for his captivating video and hard work in creating quality content. Check out his YouTube channel HERE for a variety of engaging videos, exploring the laws of power.