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Hi Everyone,

I wanted to follow up on a PREVIOUS POST with some exciting news regarding one of our own. A close friend and fellow Capoeirista is preparing for an incredible journey: she will soon be traveling with a friend to Palestine to dedicate her time and energy to helping uplift lives in the region.

Out of respect for her privacy and since I’m not entirely sure if she is comfortable with me using her real name on this public blog, I’ve decided to give her a nickname for the purpose of this story. I’m going to call her RUBY.

I chose this name for a very specific reason: she truly IS a Ruby. She is a rare gem amongst us—a person whose light shines with an uncommon brilliance and dedication. She is choosing to use a significant part of her life journey to embark on this challenging and noble mission. Her motivation is simple yet profound: to help make the world a better, more equitable, and more compassionate place.

This selflessness places her among the countless humanitarians, activists, and aid workers who have come before her, dedicating themselves to service in difficult environments. We send her off with our deepest respect and admiration, knowing that she is contributing to a legacy of hope and assistance. And, god willing, her example will inspire many more after her to follow in the footsteps of service and global citizenship. We will be following her journey closely and sharing updates as she is able to provide them. Please keep Ruby in your thoughts as she prepares for this meaningful work.

Dear Ruby,

I’m writing to you today, as you embark on this journey to Israel and Palestine, with a heart full of mixed emotions that I know are shared by everyone who cares about you. I can truly speak for all of us when I say that a deep and pervasive sense of worry accompanies your departure, primarily because of the well-documented volatility and ongoing conflict in that region. We are acutely aware of the historical and current tension that makes that part of the world an exceptionally dangerous area.

Indeed, it’s a place steeped in so much history and prophecy, even near the Valley of Megiddo, which features so prominently in ancient texts as the predicted site of Armageddon. The awareness of the continuous cycle of conflict there weighs heavily on all of our minds. This isn’t just a concern for an abstract conflict; it’s a deep fear for your personal safety, knowing that even areas considered “safe” can quickly become unpredictable in a region with such deeply rooted geopolitical instability. We follow the news closely, and every report serves as a fresh reminder of the complexity and risk you are willingly stepping into.

However, mixed with this apprehension is an enormous sense of pride and admiration for your courage. Your decision to go, despite the risks, speaks volumes about your commitment to understanding the world and your dedication to the principles you hold dear—principles, I know, that drive you to seek out truth and connection in even the most challenging environments.

We know you are not going lightly or without preparation. The Angoleira in you—the warrior, the seeker, the one who moves with grace and intention through the world—gives us some comfort. Yet, please, let that same spirit guide you to be vigilant, to be cautious, and to prioritize your well-being above all else. Remember that your personal safety is paramount. Keep us updated, check in often, and know that our thoughts are constantly with you as you navigate this powerful, volatile, and profoundly significant part of the world. We wish you an experience that is as safe as it is meaningful.

However, amidst this concern, there is also an immense and undeniable pride that swells within me—a feeling that completely eclipses any passing apprehension. I am genuinely, profoundly happy and immensely supportive to see you embark on this next chapter of your journey, not just because it represents a major life step, but because I know, intimately and without a shadow of a doubt, the kind of person you are.

I have witnessed, firsthand, the strength of the spirit you carry—a resilience that has overcome every obstacle placed in your path and a fierce determination that never allows you to settle for less than your best. It is this unwavering conviction that guides your steps, ensuring that you approach every challenge with integrity, empathy, and a clear sense of purpose.

Because of all this, I have absolute, unshakable faith that you possess everything needed to not only navigate the challenging and complex environment you are heading into but also to thrive within it. More than just surviving, I believe you will contribute profoundly, making a significant, positive, and lasting impact on everyone you meet and everything you touch. You have a unique ability to see the good, foster collaboration, and tackle essential work with a dedication that is truly inspiring, and I know you will achieve so many essential good things while you are there. This journey is a testament to your character, and I am already looking forward to hearing about the incredible successes you will undoubtedly achieve..

This deep confidence comes from knowing the authentic you, Ruby—from knowing you as a Capoeirista, an Angoleira, and a warrior. These are not merely casual titles to be worn lightly; they are a deep and undeniable reflection of your inherent discipline, your fierce resilience, your deep-seated commitment to justice, and your unyielding dedication to community. The philosophy, the strength, and the unique wisdom you have cultivated through years of intense practice and deep study within Capoeira Angola are not external skills; they are now intrinsic, foundational parts of your character.

They have forged an inner compass that points true north, regardless of the surrounding chaos. Wherever you may go—to any corner of the world, and especially to a place where true strength of character, moral clarity, and personal fortitude are paramount—you take that powerful, uplifting, and protective energy with you. It is a presence that will serve as both your shield and your light, ensuring that you remain grounded, focused, and effective in your mission. Your training has prepared you not just for the roda, but for the world. Go forth and shine your light brightly.

Your presence there is a beacon, fueled by a deeply personal and profound desire to make a tangible difference in the lives of others. This commitment, this willingness to step into a challenging environment, will undoubtedly make you a continuous source of light, hope, and steady reassurance for those you encounter. You are embarking on a truly meaningful journey.

Embrace this entire experience—the challenges, the triumphs, and the quiet moments of connection. Let it shape you and enrich your understanding of the world. Commit yourself fully, heart and soul, to the core mission of uplifting lives, one interaction at a time. Work diligently to bring a measurable degree of peace and positivity wherever your path leads you, whether through direct action, compassionate listening, or simply by maintaining a calm and encouraging demeanor. Never underestimate the impact of sharing the unique perspective, profound empathy, and defining compassion that you carry within you. These qualities are your greatest assets and will leave an indelible mark on the community you serve.

May the both of you have a truly wonderful and deeply impactful time during your journey to Palestine. Please know that we are all immensely proud of the work you are undertaking and the commitment you are showing. Go forth and do the good work that I know you are destined to do, bringing your unique compassion and powerful energy to those you meet and the causes you serve.

As you dedicate your whole heart and considerable energy to this important and vital endeavor, please carry with you the knowledge of our support, our admiration, and our most heartfelt wish for your eventual, safe return. We know you will encounter profound challenges and moments of deep inspiration. Embrace these experiences; let them shape and guide you. Come back to us stronger in spirit, enriched by the invaluable understanding and empathy you will have gained, and better for the profound experiences you will have had in contributing to such meaningful work.

And, most importantly of all, we pray that you return safe and sound. Your well-being is our greatest concern, overshadowing all other worries. Every day that you are away, we send our hopes and positive energy across the miles, wishing you protection and peace. Take the utmost care of yourself, be mindful and acutely aware of your surroundings at all times, and know that you are a constant, cherished presence in our thoughts and prayers. This absence, while a necessary part of your journey, feels like a long, quiet pause in our lives.

We will be meticulously counting the days, marking the weeks off the calendar with a dedicated attention, and anticipating the glorious moment until we can finally welcome you home. That day will be a true celebration—we long to hear every detail of your stories, share in your experiences, and celebrate all that you have accomplished during this time. Your return will complete our circle. Until then, travel well, our dear sister Angoleira, and know that a warm, loving home awaits you.

With all our love and support.

Happy Halloween! Tomorrow, we’re having a roda for the holiday, El Día de los Muertos, Spanish for the Day of the Dead.

The Day of the Dead is a vibrant and deeply meaningful Mexican celebration, primarily observed on November 1st and 2nd. Far from being an occasion of sorrow, it is a time of profound joy and lively remembrance. Families gather to honor and remember their deceased loved ones, rooted in the beautiful belief that the souls of the departed temporarily return to the world of the living to visit their families. This ancient tradition, with its origins in Mesoamerican indigenous cultures, is a testament to the enduring bond between the living and the dead.

The celebration is characterized by its colorful altars, known as ofrendas, which are lovingly decorated with marigolds (cempasúchil), candles, photographs of the departed, and their favorite foods and drinks. Calaveras (skulls), often made of sugar or clay and playfully decorated, are iconic symbols, reminding us of the cyclical nature of life and death. Music, dancing, storytelling, and shared meals create a festive atmosphere that embraces death not as an end, but as a continuation of the spiritual journey.

How, then, would such an individual navigate the raw grief of losing a loved one or a cherished friend? The pain of loss is universal, yet a Capoeirista might approach it with a unique blend of stoicism and emotional release. The communal aspect of the roda, the shared energy and support, would likely extend to moments of mourning. They might find solace in the shared memories, the songs, and the movements that bind them together. The grief would be felt deeply, but perhaps not as an ending, but as a transformation, echoing the constant shifts within the capoeira game itself. The spirit of the departed, like a powerful movement, might be seen as continuing to influence and inspire those left behind.

And even, how would they process the passing of an adversary, acknowledging the complex dance of life and conflict? In Capoeira, the “adversary” is often also a partner, a crucial element in the learning and growth process. There is respect even in conflict, a recognition that the opposition helps one to refine their own art. Therefore, the passing of an adversary might be met with a complex mix of emotions: perhaps a sense of completion, a reflection on the lessons learned from their interactions, and even a profound respect for the role they played in one’s own journey. The “game” of life and conflict, in this sense, would have concluded, leaving behind a legacy of shared experience.

More deeply still, how would a Capoeirista cultivate a life of resilience and joy, embracing the present moment, so that when their own time comes, they could face death not with fear, but with an open heart, grace, and profound acceptance? This is where the core philosophy of Capoeira Angola truly shines. The constant improvisation, the ability to adapt to any situation, and the emphasis on “mandinga”—the cunning and wisdom inherent in the art—all contribute to a mindset of resilience. The music, the singing, and the sheer physicality of Capoeira instill a deep sense of joy and vitality. By living fully in the present, by engaging with the world with an open heart and a willingness to learn and adapt, a Capoeirista would, in essence, be preparing for their own transition not as an end, but as another movement in the eternal dance of existence. Death, in this view, would not be an enemy to be fought, but a natural progression to be met with the same grace, rhythm, and profound acceptance that defines their life within and beyond the roda.

A Capoeirista, in their pursuit of a life imbued with resilience and joy, would embark on a profound journey of self-cultivation, deeply rooted in the philosophy and practice of Capoeira. This journey would emphasize not only physical prowess but also mental fortitude, emotional intelligence, and spiritual awareness.

Embracing the Present Moment:

• Mindful Movement: The very essence of Capoeira—its fluid, improvisational movements, the call-and-response of the berimbau, and the dynamic interplay with a partner—demands complete presence. A Capoeirista learns to shed distractions and fully inhabit each ginga, each esquiva, each rabo de arraia. This constant practice of mindful movement translates into an ability to be fully present in all aspects of life, savoring each experience without dwelling on the past or fretting about the future.
• Active Listening and Observation: In the roda, a Capoeirista must be acutely aware of their surroundings, anticipating their opponent’s moves and responding instinctively. This heightened sense of observation extends beyond the roda, allowing them to truly see and hear the world around them, to appreciate small details, and to engage deeply with others.
• The Axé of Now: The concept of axé in Capoeira—a vital life force, energy, and good vibrations—is intrinsically linked to the present. A Capoeirista cultivates axé by fully engaging with the moment, pouring their energy into their practice, their community, and their daily interactions. This energetic embrace of the present fosters a deep sense of connection and vitality.

Cultivating Resilience:

• Overcoming Physical Challenges: The demanding physical training of Capoeira builds incredible strength, flexibility, and endurance. Beyond the physical, it teaches a Capoeirista to push past perceived limitations, to embrace discomfort as a path to growth, and to develop a tenacious spirit that refuses to be easily defeated.
• Navigating the Roda of Life: Capoeira, with its constant flow of attack and defense, provides a metaphorical training ground for life’s challenges. A Capoeirista learns to adapt to unexpected situations, to fall and rise again with grace, and to find creative solutions in moments of pressure. This constant negotiation within the roda builds a profound sense of adaptability and problem-solving.
• Community and Support (Comunidade): The strong sense of community within Capoeira—the mutual support, encouragement, and shared struggle—is a powerful source of resilience. Knowing they are part of a larger family, a Capoeirista finds strength in their connections, understanding that they don’t have to face life’s difficulties alone.
• Discipline and Perseverance: The journey to mastering Capoeira is long and arduous, requiring immense discipline and perseverance. This commitment to continuous improvement, to showing up even when tired or discouraged, instills a deep-seated resilience that extends to all areas of life, enabling them to weather setbacks and pursue long-term goals.

Nurturing Joy:

• The Ginga of Happiness: The foundational ginga of Capoeira, a constant, swaying movement, embodies a playful and joyful spirit. It’s a dance, a game, and a fight all rolled into one, and this inherent playfulness permeates the Capoeirista’s outlook on life. They learn to approach challenges with a light heart and to find joy in the process, not just the outcome.
• Musicality and Expression: The music of Capoeira—the rhythmic instruments, the songs, and the clapping—is an integral part of its joy. A Capoeirista learns to express themselves through music and movement, to release emotions, and to celebrate life with infectious enthusiasm. This deep connection to rhythm and self-expression becomes a wellspring of personal joy.
• Connection and Celebration: The roda itself is a celebration—of culture, of skill, of community, and of life. The shared laughter, the camaraderie, and the collective energy create an atmosphere of profound joy that strengthens bonds and uplifts spirits.
• Personal Growth and Self-Discovery: The journey of learning Capoeira is one of continuous self-discovery. As a Capoeirista gains new skills, overcomes fears, and deepens their understanding of themselves and their craft, they experience a profound sense of accomplishment and personal joy.

Facing Death with an Open Heart, Grace, and Profound Acceptance:

• Detachment from Outcome, Attachment to Process: Capoeira teaches a certain detachment from rigid outcomes, focusing instead on the beauty and flow of the process. This mindset allows a Capoeirista to release the fear of what comes next, including death, and instead to appreciate the journey of life itself.
• The Cycle of Life and Death in Nature: Drawing parallels from nature’s cycles of growth, decay, and renewal, a Capoeirista would understand death not as an end, but as a natural transition within the grand tapestry of existence. Their connection to the earth and its rhythms would foster a sense of harmony with this inevitability.
• Living a Full Life: By living a life of presence, resilience, and joy, a Capoeirista would accumulate a wealth of experiences, wisdom, and meaningful connections. This rich tapestry of a life well-lived would provide a sense of completeness, diminishing the fear of what might be missed.
• Grace in Every Movement: The grace cultivated in Capoeira extends beyond physical movement to a grace of being. This inner grace allows for a calm and composed acceptance of life’s ultimate transition, facing it with dignity and peace.
• Legacy and Continuity: A Capoeirista understands that their impact, their axé, lives on through their students, their community, and the memories they create. This awareness of their legacy, of contributing to something larger than themselves, fosters a profound acceptance of the individual’s place within the continuum of life and death.

In essence, a Capoeirista cultivates a life that mirrors the roda itself: a continuous flow of challenge and grace, effort and joy, and ultimately, an understanding that every ending is simply a prelude to a new beginning, faced with an open heart and profound acceptance.

The intricate and beautiful interconnectedness of life, death, and the ancestral wisdom that underpins both Capoeira Angola and Día de los Muertos offers a remarkably rich tapestry for contemplation and understanding. These two seemingly disparate traditions, one a martial art, dance, and philosophy born from the transatlantic slave trade, and the other a vibrant Mesoamerican celebration of the departed, share a profound common ground in their recognition of the cyclical nature of existence and the enduring power of memory. They both serve as powerful cultural mechanisms for confronting mortality, honoring those who have passed, and reinforcing communal bonds across generations.

In Capoeira Angola, every movement, every song, every interaction in the roda (the circle where Capoeira is played) is a testament to the fleeting beauty of existence and the enduring spirit of those who came before. The slow, strategic, and often deceptive movements of Angola embody the struggles and resilience of enslaved Africans who used Capoeira as a means of resistance and cultural preservation. This physical expression, seemingly a dance, was a veiled form of combat training and a repository of cultural identity, ensuring that the spirit of freedom and defiance was never truly extinguished. The songs, often sung in call-and-response, narrate stories of hardship, liberation, and the wisdom of ancestors, invoking their presence and guidance in the present moment. These lyrical narratives are not merely historical recounts but active spiritual invocations, drawing the ancestors into the roda as participants and mentors. The berimbau, the central instrument of Capoeira, with its haunting melodies, acts as a conduit to the spiritual realm, connecting players to a lineage of practitioners and to the broader African diaspora. Its various tones and rhythms dictate the pace and energy of the game, guiding players through a ritualistic dance that blurs the lines between physical exertion and spiritual communion. Death in Capoeira is not just a physical end, but a transformation, a return to the ancestral realm from which new life and wisdom emerge. This perspective is deeply rooted in African cosmologies, where the line between the living and the dead is permeable, and ancestors actively participate in the lives of their descendants. The respect shown to elders and masters, both living and departed, highlights the continuous flow of knowledge and energy across generations, ensuring that the legacy of Capoeira, and the spirits that shaped it, remain vibrant and influential. The Axé, the vital life force and spiritual energy inherent in Capoeira, is passed down through these lineages, making each roda a living memorial and a dynamic continuation of ancestral practices.

Similarly, Día de los Muertos, with its vibrant altars (ofrendas), its joyful calaveras (skulls), and its heartfelt remembrances, provides a framework for honoring the departed, recognizing their continued presence in our lives, and celebrating the unbreakable bonds that transcend the veil of death. Far from a morbid observance, Día de los Muertos is a joyful and colorful celebration, a time when the veil between worlds is believed to thin, allowing the spirits of the deceased to return and commune with their families. Ofrendas are meticulously prepared with the favorite foods, drinks, and personal belongings of the departed, inviting them back to a world filled with love and warmth. The whimsical calaveras, often depicted as elegant skeletons engaged in lively activities, serve as a playful reminder of the universality of death and the importance of living life to the fullest. Through storytelling, shared meals, and the creation of beautiful artworks, families actively engage in a dialogue with their ancestors, reinforcing their identity and connection to a rich cultural heritage. This tradition emphasizes that while the physical presence may be gone, the love, influence, and memories of the departed continue to shape and enrich the lives of the living.

Both traditions, in their unique expressions, remind us that death is not an end but a transition, a part of the grand cycle of being, and an opportunity to deepen our appreciation for the precious gift of life itself. They teach us that acknowledging our mortality can lead to a more profound understanding of our humanity and a greater capacity for joy and connection. By embracing the wisdom of those who came before, and by creating spaces for remembrance and celebration, Capoeira Angola and Día de los Muertos offer powerful models for navigating the complexities of life and death, fostering a sense of continuity, community, and an enduring respect for the past that enriches the present and informs the future. They are living testaments to the universal human need to make sense of our existence, to honor our roots, and to find beauty and meaning even in the face of impermanence.

I will delve deeper into the intricate relationship between Capoeira Angola and the concept of death in a future blog post. This complex subject merits a thorough exploration, examining how the philosophy and practice of Capoeira Angola confront, symbolize, or even transcend mortality. We will explore the historical and cultural roots of Capoeira Angola, tracing its origins back to the enslaved African communities in Brazil and understanding how their struggles and beliefs shaped its worldview. This will involve analyzing specific movements, rituals, and musical elements within Capoeira Angola to uncover their hidden meanings and connections to themes of life, death, rebirth, and the ancestral realm. Furthermore, we will consider how individual practitioners experience and interpret these profound concepts through their engagement with the art form, potentially offering insights into personal resilience, confronting fear, and finding meaning in the face of impermanence. For now, however, let us set aside these profound reflections and fully embrace the spirit of the upcoming holiday, looking forward to a time of celebration and joy.