Race and Beauty in Brasil.

Hello,

Before I go into this post, I want all of you out there to know that the topic of race and racism in brazil is a very loaded and confusing topic. Why? well, watch the vkideo below.

Synopsis of the video: Jessica says she’s black. Her cousin says she’s white. This difference in their self-identification highlights the complex tapestry of racial identity that exists in Brazil, a country notorious for its diverse population and the myriad shades of skin tones within it.

Stephanie Nolen spends time with one family to find out just how complicated race in Brazil can be, delving into the historical context and cultural nuances that shape these identities. Through her exploration, she uncovers stories of resilience and pride, as well as the ongoing challenges that individuals face in a society still grappling with its colonial past and the implications of colorism on personal and communal relationships. By engaging in candid conversations with family members across generations, Nolen reveals how the legacy of slavery continues to influence social dynamics, personal aspirations, and community ties.

Now the video below, heartbreaking as it can be to some of us, hits close to home for me.

In this touching video, a Brazilian social influencer tries to convince her black grandmother that she is beautiful, sharing heartfelt words and personal stories to uplift her spirit. The grandmother, however, remains skeptical and struggles to embrace this affirmation due to the deep-rooted beliefs shaped by all the racist things she’s heard and experienced as a black woman in Brazil throughout her life.

The influencer gently recounts moments of pride and resilience within their family’s history, drawing attention to the stories of her ancestors who overcame adversity and celebrated their unique identities throughout generations. By sharing these cherished memories, she hopes to spark a profound sense of self-love and appreciation in her grandmother’s heart, encouraging her to reflect on the legacy of strength that runs through their bloodline. This narrative emphasizes that beauty comes in many forms, whether it is through cultural practices, shared traditions, or personal triumphs, and is inherently tied to one’s identity and heritage. She passionately believes that recognizing this interconnectedness can foster a deeper understanding of oneself, allowing her grandmother—and others—to embrace their own worth and the rich tapestry of their background.

Now the reason this nits close to home for me is all the “Yo mama’s so black“jokes, and all the reminders that in the not so distant past, and even in our present, blackness equated to ugliness. The darker someone’s skin was, the worse they were treated, often subjected to cruel stereotypes and derogatory comments that permeated everyday life. These so-called jokes were not just harmless humor; they were deeply rooted in historical prejudice and societal norms that devalued the beauty and worth of those with darker complexions. It pains me to reflect on how these narratives have shaped perceptions, reinforcing a damaging hierarchy based on skin tone.

This experience highlights the urgent need for a broader understanding of beauty that celebrates diversity rather than diminishes it, urging society to challenge and dismantle these harmful stereotypes that continue to persist today.